Re: How to let her come back - or not
Don't get emotional "Blah blah you hurt me blah" kind of thing. Just act as if it wasn't a big deal, almost like a " Oh yeah, what happened with you?" kind of thing. Do your best to make it seem like it hadn't effected you at all, an afterthought even, and wherever you decide to take it after that is completely up to you. Just remember the only reason a woman contacts you on her own is if she's into you or wants something, and sometimes they're one in the same. Good luck.
"Act like you're interested, not like you care."