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    ddrx is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to let her come back - or not

    OK gents, 45 yr old new to dating scene and could use some advice:

    Met a woman my age courtesy of craigslist - great email connection, met for a few great dates...kissing, hugging...plenty of reason to think more is coming...and wham:

    The one line email from her that ended it all without explanation.

    She wouldn't answer my call and deleted her email account. Damn.

    OK so that was 3 weeks ago, I've moved on, still mystified but no longer hurt or entranced by her.

    Now she has texted me a 'sorry, i was too hasty and shouldn't have done that' forgive me thing.

    I'm ok with 'forgive' and move on without her...but would love to forgive and get back if that's what she means...or does that make me a doormat?

    What we had seemed intense but utlimately it was just 6 weeks of our lives. Let her back and if so, how (joking, lighthearted or 'something's got to change', you hurt me blah blah blah)?

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    Default Re: How to let her come back - or not

    Don't get emotional "Blah blah you hurt me blah" kind of thing. Just act as if it wasn't a big deal, almost like a " Oh yeah, what happened with you?" kind of thing. Do your best to make it seem like it hadn't effected you at all, an afterthought even, and wherever you decide to take it after that is completely up to you. Just remember the only reason a woman contacts you on her own is if she's into you or wants something, and sometimes they're one in the same. Good luck.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: How to let her come back - or not

    Even if you REALLY,REALLY,REALLY want her back badly just play it really cool.

    Tell her that you have mixed feelings about hanging out again. Ask her to give you 1 good reason why you should hang out with her again. Get her to qualify why you should give her another chance

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    ddrx is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to let her come back - or not

    Thanks for the input guys, I'll keep it low key..but I will ask playfully for one good reason.


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