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    Default Too many people lurking try contributing a little.

    I've found myself spending less and less time here because I feel its hurting my game. Its hurting yours too if you ask all this self help bullsh1t instead of finding out yourself or pushing your boundaries. Ask me what to do on a first date or how to text a girl and your wasting your time. Look at what has been laid out, try it and let us know. For god sakes your all too needy.

    And about contributing to this forum. How can a post get 180 plus views and no reply? Thats farking bullsh1t guys and shows me that everyone is just here for themselves. Its supposed to be a community not a self help page. Get your sh1t together. Peace
    What you need will not come quickly. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS WHAT YOU FEAR. Take comfort that what you seek is there. But you will NEVER have it if you keep being a p$ssy.

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    Default Re: Too many people lurking try contributing a little.

    Quote Originally Posted by Devil_dog View Post
    I've found myself spending less and less time here because I feel its hurting my game. Its hurting yours too if you ask all this self help bullsh1t instead of finding out yourself or pushing your boundaries. Ask me what to do on a first date or how to text a girl and your wasting your time. Look at what has been laid out, try it and let us know. For god sakes your all too needy.

    And about contributing to this forum. How can a post get 180 plus views and no reply? Thats farking bullsh1t guys and shows me that everyone is just here for themselves. Its supposed to be a community not a self help page. Get your sh1t together. Peace
    I agree with you 300%. When I joined I thought this website was dead. When I started making topics and those topics had like 200 views in a couple of hours, I realize people are just selfish pricks. There are really only a handful of guys who bother to answer anything, and im pretty sure I could name them all (you guys know who you are). How does the quote go? You're not a master until you can teach it to someone else (something like that). Well gents, get to teaching and stop with the basic ass questions without even searching first.

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    Default Re: Too many people lurking try contributing a little.

    Oi I like my lurking .... (30 charcs)

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    Default Re: Too many people lurking try contributing a little.

    I agree with you guys.

    I lurked here for a little while. I picked things up, tried them in the field and I joined the site so I could help others the way I was helped when I was lurking.

    My situation is that I had pretty good game in my late teens and early 20's. Those were my university years. I am from Vancouver, Canada.

    I got married to a great girl and we grew apart and divorced. I started dating and some of the stuff started coming back. I went on a dating website, had a pretty good profile and I met this girl.

    During the first date she said, " You read The Game didn't you?"

    I had no idea what she was talking about. Apparently some of the stuff I was using on her she thought was from the game like kino and escalation.

    The next day I picked up the book, read it and started refining my stuff. There was some stuff I was doing well and other stuff the I was doing totally wrong.

    My night game is great and my day game lacked QUITE a bit. That's what I am working.

    My biggest issue was the openers and transition to get the #.

    After that I can talk to a girl on the phone for 3 to 4 hours. Meet for drinks and f-close on the first date about 80% of the time because I do a lot of push pull on the phone before d1. I also escalate on the phone. In my line of work I talk to quite a few people during the day so communicating isn't a problem.

    My openers are getting better but I still have a bit of a problem with transition. My transition isn't where I wan't it to be.

    I really want to thank the guys who take the time to post. I learn new stuff every time I come here. I want to pass on what I learned to other guys.

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    Default Re: Too many people lurking try contributing a little.

    I see value in helping others and I believe that it is true that the field is king. Almost everything you really need to know will solve itself in the real world. Thats why most of my advice is things I even have to tell myself all the time. The simple mindsets that really keep me straight on my path and comfortable being uncomfortable. You dont have to be an expert to teach but you do have to have your own experiences.
    What you need will not come quickly. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS WHAT YOU FEAR. Take comfort that what you seek is there. But you will NEVER have it if you keep being a p$ssy.

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    Default Re: Too many people lurking try contributing a little.

    You are all right Devil_dog. I am a newbie in the game but I try to reply on some posts and help people as much as I can. Though sometimes when I ask a question I get no reply.

    Guys please contribute more and help others as you got help from someone when you started learning this kinds of stuff.

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    Default Re: Too many people lurking try contributing a little.

    Quote Originally Posted by Devil_dog View Post
    I've found myself spending less and less time here because I feel its hurting my game. Its hurting yours too if you ask all this self help bullsh1t instead of finding out yourself or pushing your boundaries. Ask me what to do on a first date or how to text a girl and your wasting your time. Look at what has been laid out, try it and let us know. For god sakes your all too needy.

    And about contributing to this forum. How can a post get 180 plus views and no reply? Thats farking bullsh1t guys and shows me that everyone is just here for themselves. Its supposed to be a community not a self help page. Get your sh1t together. Peace
    I think everyone on the site should read this..I try to spend more time out in the field and not reading books or on the siteso I don't spend too much time on here and every time I could use some input on something I try to help a few posts but get nothing in return, as you said my posts get 100+ views and no responses...pure bull shit

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    Default Re: Too many people lurking try contributing a little.

    I have went through months on this site at a time where I didn't visit or contribute anything other than a random drunken post of me ranting and bitching...other times too much. Generally I stay at home so that leaves me on here to answer questions, but there is

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    Default Re: Too many people lurking try contributing a little.

    I agree I've lurked for about a month but I want to get into this full time and improve myself so that I can formulate my own pick up style through what is being taught to me and then be able to pass on my knowledge to others that might need it.

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    Default Re: Too many people lurking try contributing a little.

    I feel left out. I never lurked...

    When I'm not here, I'm busy getting my freak on. When I'm here, I'm recuperating, regenerating and reporting.

    I always learn some great stuff here and hopefully, I leave some info that will help others learn something.
    Carpe diem!


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