I am a university student and a while ago I hit the campus pub one night and there was a group of of HB6 and 7's with one HB9. I approached, negged HB9 (my target) and pretty much ignored her while conversing and flirting with her friend. HB9 made no attempts to jump in or qualify herself and later on when I talked with her she thought I was only interested in her friend and tried to set me up with said friend and give me friends number. After that I tried to make her jealous by hanging out and dancing with other HB8's/9's at the pub, but she left without saying goodbye. A few weeks later when the new semester started we ended up in the same study group, which gave me the perfect excuse to get her phone number, email and facebook.
So when I would talk to her, text her or chat with her on Facebook I would try to flirt and escalate to show her I was a confident, sexual guy but she always changed the subject right away to whatever we were studying. I suggested we study alone but she always insisted on other people coming or it being somewhere public like the library if it was just the 2 of us. Whenever I tried to do Kino she would get tense or pull away and not really let me touch her. And I was confused because whenever I would DHV she would give IOD's. Also when I tried to get her to qualify herself she didn't even acknowledge it or try to. I flirted with lots of other girls to show her she wasn't the only one and she didn't bat an eye and again tried to set me up with one of the girls I had flirted with. Finally I just went for it and said that a chain restaurant I knew we both liked was opening near campus and we should go on a date there, but she gave a LJBF response. I had no desire to just be her friend and I said that I wanted more and don't believe in true man/woman friendships.
I decided to freeze her out. I didn't text or email or initiate chats, I joined a different study group and made sure she saw me having fun with and being around lots of other girls. Today after 3 weeks passed with no contact from her I texted her using one of the reengaging texts ("Hey ___. Me and a bunch of friends were going to ___. I'm considering inviting you but only if you promise to be bucket loads of fun." ) from another thread here. After about 30 mins she texted back "Um, who is this?" Turns out she deleted my number after I froze her out and I also saw she deleted me on Facebook. When I told her who it was she responded with this this about 10 minutes ago:
"You say you are interested in me. But you play games and I don't like games. When a guy is interested in me I expect him to show interest. On the night we met you ignored me and hit on one of my friends (whom you didn't even like, which is a mean thing in itself) When you insulted me with a back-handed compliment I thought it made you look insecure. You repeatedly brought up sex and innuendo without any build up even though I showed no interest. I barely knew you and you kept touching my legs/knees/hair even though you saw how uncomfortable I was. I don't mind touching but not from some guy I barely know. You ignoring me, trying to make me jealous with other girls, acting like a "player" and bragging to make yourself seem better is is immature. I have high enough self esteem that if a guy doesn't express interest I am not going to make a fool of myself and throw myself at him like a jealous teenager. If he doesn't show interest I will move onto a guy that does. Also I don't need to qualify or justify myself as a person just to you. I barely know you. Either you like me or you don't. I don't mind if we study together but beyond that it's not happening right now"
I have never been called out like this and have NO idea how to respond. I don't know what I can do to salvage this or if I even still have a chance. I don't want to come across as AFC. Any help would be very much appreciated.