I am a new member to this forum. I was born and bought up in India and is now in Sweden pursuing my masters. Sweden is like a heaven with lot of gorgeous women and I was so bad with women. I came from an orthodox family and in my culture It is like a sin to talk to women and ask them for sex.
Now, I am in a completely different society where anyone can do anything they want. So, looking at all the beautiful women, I am really motivated to learn the STUFF that can help me get women I want. It is a very painful learning curve and I found that I have no social skills whatsoever. I used to go to pubs, clubs, student bars and everywhere to meet women. After 2 years of work, I started to get some results. But , I am actually overloaded with a lof of PUA stuff in my brain and is making lot of fabricated responses rather than being natural
Does anyone have this problem? how do I avoid this kind of fabricated stuff, I mean lines and responses that I have learnt from PUA books and training audio tapes. I just feel unnatural and is growing tired of not being me. Surprisingly women are responding better to those fabricated lines than my natural responses. This kept me from doing what I was doing before. Even after getting results, I still did not have any clarity of what I have to do to get this going and get better. I want to love what I am doing. But right now, I am not.
Please do advice me on how to be authentic with what I am doing. It is a bit awkward for me to post this, but I can use some help from guys on this forum.