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Thread: Advice for Indian guys to get a Girl in Western adopted society

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    Default Advice for Indian guys to get a Girl in Western adopted society

    Hi everyone,
    I am a new member to this forum. I was born and bought up in India and is now in Sweden pursuing my masters. Sweden is like a heaven with lot of gorgeous women and I was so bad with women. I came from an orthodox family and in my culture It is like a sin to talk to women and ask them for sex.

    Now, I am in a completely different society where anyone can do anything they want. So, looking at all the beautiful women, I am really motivated to learn the STUFF that can help me get women I want. It is a very painful learning curve and I found that I have no social skills whatsoever. I used to go to pubs, clubs, student bars and everywhere to meet women. After 2 years of work, I started to get some results. But , I am actually overloaded with a lof of PUA stuff in my brain and is making lot of fabricated responses rather than being natural

    Does anyone have this problem? how do I avoid this kind of fabricated stuff, I mean lines and responses that I have learnt from PUA books and training audio tapes. I just feel unnatural and is growing tired of not being me. Surprisingly women are responding better to those fabricated lines than my natural responses. This kept me from doing what I was doing before. Even after getting results, I still did not have any clarity of what I have to do to get this going and get better. I want to love what I am doing. But right now, I am not.

    Please do advice me on how to be authentic with what I am doing. It is a bit awkward for me to post this, but I can use some help from guys on this forum.

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    Default Re: Advice for Indian guys to get a Girl in Western adopted society

    It doesn't matter if you are Indian. Chinese, black, white, green or blue ( smurfs)

    What you need to do is learn the basic stuf and then every two weeks add one layer to it.

    Use openers to talk to women. If you have failed all of your life with women then what's a few more weeks of failing. Just work on your openers even if you fail after successfully opening up women.

    Then 2 weeks later work on taking and opener and turning it into a conversation.

    Then 2 week later use the opener, make it into a conversation and then use kino.

    Keep building your game one layer at a time. This is just like school at one tome you started with what is 1+1=2. Then slowly layers of math and algebra were added as you progressed. Nobody in grade one knows thw equation if A=B , B=C, then A must =C.

    Crawl, walk,jog and then run. Don't use your culture or background as an excuse. Learn the game and the game will reward you.

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    Default Re: Advice for Indian guys to get a Girl in Western adopted society

    Mate I hate to throw this at you but Western women are not that much into Indian guys not only because of physical stuff but also because of the the Indian's restrict religious believes and culture. Work on demonstrating yourself as a liberal person and make them sure you are different (well, every Indian thinks they are different ;-) ). If you speak English try to improve your pronunciation and weaken your accent. Indian accent is too fast and very hard to understand for many people especially for native speakers.

    Sorry for being blunt. I think you need honest advice rather than nice words.

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    Default Re: Advice for Indian guys to get a Girl in Western adopted society

    Thank you for your advice. Actually, both of you make a lot of sense. I need to work on cultural barriers as well apart from just the casual stuff.

    However, I do not believe that western society women do not get attracted to Indian guys. Although, I see the point of physical attractiveness to women, In general. It is true that some Indian guys have a terrible sense of dressing, prejudice and accent.

    As for me, I am blessed with physical attributes. I am 6.2 feet tall and have a fair complexion. So, I am spared in that department. It is true that they cant understand Indian accent, which am working on it.

    But thank you for the honest words. It really gave me a better perspective. Cheers mates

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    Default Re: Advice for Indian guys to get a Girl in Western adopted society

    Veba I think it will be good if you tell the chicks somethings that convince them that you are different. e.g. say to a Swedish chick that "... my ex was actually Swedish/Australian/American/German .... She was blond and had eyes just like yours... we were supposed to get married. even our parents met but then some things happened that made us get apart". !

    Say this and
    1- get value and proof
    2- make them sure you know how to deal with a western chick
    3- you are not after screwing them over and you have no cultural barrier

    I got a hot Russian chick by doing this: I showed a Facebook photo of mine (on my iPhone) and said ".. this is me in Australian Doctors Orchestra with my ex girlfriend". Then I pointed to a hot Aussie chick in the photo who was next to me and I said she was my ex whilst my ex was actually another girl who was not hot really! Then she asked me "why Australian Doctors Orchestra"? and I replied "Because my ex was a doctor and she arranged the orchestra. I like doing charity stuff so I got myself involved too...". Make up this kind of crap and you will be fine ;-)

    good luck ;-)


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