Re: GF negs
First of all, you shouldn't be hiding the fact you smoke from her. You shouldn't hide things in a relationship. If you want to smoke, then smoke. I'm working on quitting smoking myself and I barely smoke and I'm fighting the cravings and giving in some times (2 cigs in the last week). So I'm doing very well I think, but it is because I want to, not because some woman thinks I should.
She whines about you drinking. If you want a beer have a beer. You are a fucking grown ass man. Hold your stance on your frame about her starting a fight. You are probably right. Women are very good at using their emotions to turn our logic against us, but hold steadfast, sometimes they are very stubborn.
You are a grown ass man, don't let her control you do what you want if she doesn't like it she can leave. That is why people date, then are in a relationship then get married, to work these kinds of things out.
KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple