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    Unhappy GF negs

    Hi
    My gf and I have been dating for a few months
    not very long ago she nagged me about smoking' I resisted at first but stopped smoking( at least as far as she knows).
    today she asked me to help her with her homework, she didn't find the energy to start so I gave her a push, later she wanted me to help with more homework, I said that the article is getting me sleepy, she said " yea it's not the beer you had earlier" I told her that she is acting badly and she started an argument, I know she has a bit of an issue with drinking from home but she also drinks sometimes/

    It ended with me thinking and telling her she was looking for a fight so she would have an excuse not to study, which I believe to be true.

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    Default Re: GF negs

    First of all, you shouldn't be hiding the fact you smoke from her. You shouldn't hide things in a relationship. If you want to smoke, then smoke. I'm working on quitting smoking myself and I barely smoke and I'm fighting the cravings and giving in some times (2 cigs in the last week). So I'm doing very well I think, but it is because I want to, not because some woman thinks I should.

    She whines about you drinking. If you want a beer have a beer. You are a fucking grown ass man. Hold your stance on your frame about her starting a fight. You are probably right. Women are very good at using their emotions to turn our logic against us, but hold steadfast, sometimes they are very stubborn.

    You are a grown ass man, don't let her control you do what you want if she doesn't like it she can leave. That is why people date, then are in a relationship then get married, to work these kinds of things out.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: GF negs

    an update
    I know my gf tried to do her homework yesterday by herself, after telling me she won't ask for my help again(she's done that one before).

    well I know this is not the worst fight we had, but I'm getting tired of her acting cold, and me apologizing for something that I don't see as wrong.

    Is there a way to turn this around, am I just trying to save a failed relationship.

    any advice?

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    Default Re: GF negs

    Update

    I'm still getting the cold shoulder,
    I have to admit I was pissed too at first.
    Now It's just getting me tired, today I tried to say hello and other small talk, she didn't respond

    she still feels ok to use my computer, or getting her morning coffee, I don't mind that, this whole thing seems stupid to me.
    but it is draining my energy.
    I'm thinking about dumping her after we have a workshop we both attend to.


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