Re: has she lost her interest in me.
I am looking at this, and I am seeing myself. This is exactly what happened to me with the girl that set me down this path.
Anyways, I can answer all of your questions. Yes, she is losing interest in you. What is happening is you are coming off as needy because you are trying so hard to talk to her and set up a date with her. She doesn't like all of the pressure, and so she is now trying to use a complete rejection strategy to get rid of you. AKA, the Cold Shoulder.
So how do you fix this?
Given the fact she is trying to do a complete rejection, giving her the cold shoulder will only hurt you in this case. There is another tool, however, that will cause her head to flip loops.
This tool is the friendzone speech.
This tool is often used by women to terminate attraction and get a guy off of their tails. However, they are usually NEVER preparred to get the speech themselves from a man. All you need to do is tell her something along the following:
"Hey, I've been giving it some thought, and I think it would be better if we both just remained friends."
If you continue to flirt with her after doing this, it will just send her bat sh1t crazy because she has no idea what in the world is going on. You should always be on the offensive, and it's always fantastic if she is on the offensive with herself as well.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X