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    deve66 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default has she lost her interest in me.

    I was introduced to this girl, and we hit it off right away. I ask her out and we went on a date and things were great! We have a lot of interest in common, we went on a couple more dates and those were all awesome as well, kissed closed on all of them. Then she went to thailand for two weeks, and now that she is back, she pretty much filled up her schedule with work and I have been trying to set something up but she has no free time.
    And I also feel that she is kind of giving me the cold shoulder.
    Has she just lost all interest in me, or she trying to test me. Im so confused as to what happend.

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    Default Re: has she lost her interest in me.

    Attraction has an expiration date. Possible she lost interest. It's been two weeks. Vacationing in Thailand with just fun on her mind.

    Just kiss closing on multiple dates... Have you tried escalating further?

    Honestly sounds like she lost interest, but find out her schedule, and when she has a day off that she could meet up.

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    Default Re: has she lost her interest in me.

    I am looking at this, and I am seeing myself. This is exactly what happened to me with the girl that set me down this path.

    Anyways, I can answer all of your questions. Yes, she is losing interest in you. What is happening is you are coming off as needy because you are trying so hard to talk to her and set up a date with her. She doesn't like all of the pressure, and so she is now trying to use a complete rejection strategy to get rid of you. AKA, the Cold Shoulder.

    So how do you fix this?

    Given the fact she is trying to do a complete rejection, giving her the cold shoulder will only hurt you in this case. There is another tool, however, that will cause her head to flip loops.

    This tool is the friendzone speech.

    This tool is often used by women to terminate attraction and get a guy off of their tails. However, they are usually NEVER preparred to get the speech themselves from a man. All you need to do is tell her something along the following:

    "Hey, I've been giving it some thought, and I think it would be better if we both just remained friends."

    If you continue to flirt with her after doing this, it will just send her bat sh1t crazy because she has no idea what in the world is going on. You should always be on the offensive, and it's always fantastic if she is on the offensive with herself as well.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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