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    sideman8 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Friend-zone or just weird?

    I have been dealing with a few girls of Pof and seem to be having issues with my overall game. A little background i'm 26 have my own construction company with 4 employs. rent a house with 5 other guys.

    Here is one example: Went on date with 23 year old hb6, met at a local sushi place near her. Called me out on being nervous but i handled thing well. No kiss, she wanted me to pick her up and go to a bar but i had work next day so it didn't happen. We texted for a two weeks and i iced her after no results in a second hang out. About a week later we started talking and we went to the beach to hang. she then insisted i bring her back to my house and we could make dinner. did that and she met the roommates seemed to be having fun but that whole night didn't respond to my kino. i would escalate then back off but nothing. she ended up jumping into my bed to watch tv but not responding to my signs of response to my kino more like pull away from it. So i completely stopped. we spent around 5 hours together. Walked her to her car and we hugged she made sure to turn her head a bit so i would try for the kiss. at this point i'm like ok she isn't interested. Continued to text then two days later she comes back over to grab some sushi insists we get take out and eat at my house. We do that then go out side to chill. Again i continue with my kino but she is still not responding or pulling away. we take a walk down to the beach and on the way keep the kino going. she comes back to the crib in my room again but sits at the pc desk so i invite her to come chill with me and watch tv. she jumps in the bed and i lean onto her as we play with my phone, took a few pic and she started to lean onto me and get comfortable but again pulls away. Walked her to the car and didn't even go for the kiss as it didn't feel right.

    I felt like she had to be interested to drive 45mins to come chill twice this week but why would be be comply non compliant to my kino and avoid getting physical with me??
    So i'm kinda in a bind with this chick not sure how to proceed. My confidence has took a major hit since i started online dating. But its tough running a business and trying to find time with these girls that love playing games.

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    Default Re: Friend-zone or just weird?

    Well, this probably isn't the best advice but she is using you as her crutch to fulfill the ego and emotional boost she needs, but she isn't really wanting to have sex with you. Girls like this WANT to make you feel like shit as they get an ego boost from it.

    I have been trying a different method of giving advice lately, and I'm curious on how it works. What does this make you want to do? I don't care what you THINK you should do, what do you WANT to do with this situation besides just drop her. Say she comes and hangs out again as she has the last two times.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    sideman8 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Friend-zone or just weird?

    Any advice at this point can't be bad but thanks for the reply. Honestly other then just axing this chick idk what too do? I seem to have run into a few like this lately not too sure if I'm putting that vibe out there or it's an online thing.


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