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    Default Wierd situation with girl I actually like, mixed signals?

    Hi, so I met this girl at a club about 6 weeks ago in this club. We made out and I added her on Facebook the next day. We began talking and joking around etc and we would've met up but I had to leave abroad for Uni in the next few days and she lives about an hour away. Anyway, I'd pretty much forgotten about her until she recently got in touch about 2 weeks ago asking when I was coming home etc and we should go out partying. We've been snap-chatting and talking on Facebook quite a lot, flirting etc her saying she wants a kiss when I'm home in a week, but last night she sent me the weirdest message when she was drunk, it basically went like:

    Drunk words are sober thoughts, you are such a cutie I don't understand why your still single! it's wierd when you finally meet someone you can talk to everyday without lack of conversation or silences. Thats awesome and the fact that this describes our friendship is amazing. Your a special boy and the lucky girl that grabs you better be the happiest girl in the world , you hot bodied babe.

    This sounds very promising and very friend-zone at the same time, this morning she acted like nothing had been said. Now, I've played around quite a lot successfully but I actually like this girl and I can only see two options. Either just ignore her now or else simply ask her am I friend-zoned? She's 18 and I'm 21, she's rather innocent I believe.
    I understand this is a long read and I honestly appreciate your advice guys, anyone got any ideas what to do or how to interpret the situation? Thank you.

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    Default Re: Wierd situation with girl I actually like, mixed signals?

    There are no mixed signals there, she wants you and has sent you many hints

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    Default Re: Wierd situation with girl I actually like, mixed signals?

    All i can see here is that this girl wants you. She is putting you in the friend-zone at all, girls just dont like to seem desperate or do the chasing! they like to be the ones who get chased and have the idea set in their minds that its the guy's duty to initiate anything further than friendship.
    This drunk text of hers simply gives your so many unsubtle hints that she wants you which she wouldnt normally have said. She asked you for a kiss when you come back - thats more than friendship dude. When you get back, arrange to meet up and kino escalate and build some comfort. When sexual tension is getting high go for the k-close. Dont ask her about being in the friend-zone or you'll just put ideas in her head that arent already there!

    -Zeus
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    Stick a 50 note onto your forehead and talk to a stripper.. If you can get her to not think about the note, you are gold.


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