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    Default playing hard to get or just not interested?

    So there is this girl at my university and she is super hot (9/10). The only time we've really spoken is on nights out when we have both been quite drunk, both nights we kissed quite a lot and she tells me that we should hang out more (we all know what that means). Then whenever i text her in the day she rarely replies/doesnt seem that interested. Is she playing hard to get or what?! Any ideas how i can seal the deal and get around this?

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    Default Re: playing hard to get or just not interested?

    By the sounds of it, if she is only talking to you when she's drunk, it may be a sign of disinterest. I would need more details other than that to know what you did wrong. What are you texting her? When are you texting her? Details like this are needed.
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    Okay so ive had a bit more progress. Normally i can f-close easily once at the stage ive got to here but this girl is messing my game right up, probably what makes me drawn to her more, the challenge of it! nothing too intrusive, just texting how she is etc. i confronted her today in person telling her i was going to stop talking to her on nights out because she is playing a stupid 'hard to get' game and she suddenly changed tune and said she only didnt reply because she thoguht i had a girlfriend, and she said that we should watch a film sometime. We havent communicated over text since that, advice on where to go from here?

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    Default Re: playing hard to get or just not interested?

    Don't communicate with her. Don't even bother with her. She is messing up your mojo, and you're now unstable because of it. You just need to forget about her and move on with other women. If she does happen to call you and try to talk to you or make plans with you, just roll with it and play it cool.

    I can, without a doubt, tell you right now that because you are too attached and outcome oriented with this girl, you are going to fail and you are going to do so hard. Save yourself from the pain and the trouble; move on.
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    Default Re: playing hard to get or just not interested?

    Cheers man, think im going to take your advice and cut communication and ignore her on nights out, she is the type that gets alot of attention from guys so hopefully this approach of not doing what every other guy does will get her interested, if not then ill cut my losses. Guess its just the determination to learn more about the game and why its failed me on this girl and to learn to get better thats making me pursue it!

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    Default Re: playing hard to get or just not interested?

    This is one of the problems with night game that you will always encounter. A drunk woman is often not the same woman as she is the next day sober. Women who will be very receptive while drunk may be resistant the next day when sober. And whats worse, is that they may have buyers remorse and think that they acted slutty and regret it. Try to not be drinking when you do night game, and focus on women who are also not too drunk. And of course try to game this one when she is not drinking either, because obviously this is a problem.

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    Default Re: playing hard to get or just not interested?

    Yeah well, in the next time you can always kiss her and then don't text her.

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    Default Re: playing hard to get or just not interested?

    you need to step up your game and dont send weak texts. and if you think you are a good texter and she doesnt reply after a day or two just reply

    Have you been kidnapped?


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