I build a lot of attraction via text game and I nearly always escalate via text in some way. However, recently I've been telling girls that "they might even get a cheeky kiss" or something along those lines after I've fixed a date... It's normally phrased in a way that makes it look like they're getting something from me not the other way round.
I've had resounding success with it, the last two dates have actually asked me to kiss them halfway through the date and a girl last night kissed me as soon as we met without me doing anything... ended up sleeping with her ha!
HB9 "when am I going to get my kiss?" possibly it's greatest moment haha.
It seems to work for my style but I was wondering what the community thinks? To my mind it works because it conveys that I'm not scared of physical intimacy, it exudes confidence, plants the idea of kissing me prominently in their head and makes them work a little for it as I dangle the idea of a kiss then withdraw it later before eventually giving it back.
The downsides are; does it show too much interest too early? not sure what else I can think of?
comments? suggestions? advice?