I have just started heavily researching game and daygame, i started nightgame in January
Reccomendations for nightgame:
-watch the PUA tv series (2 seasons)
-keys to the VIP (3 seasons)
-Mystery method archive
-obviously the game by neil strauss
I am only eighteen and still unfortunately in highschool! Alright so i picked up huge interest in this shit. Im a skinny guy 5 foot 9 stylish and with glasses. I am obviously not a meathead or the Alpha Male, but one benifit is i have been told i am very good looking. But you know what my luck with ladies is shit... never done anything with a girl sober. This changed that i decided to go to a few all ages clubs here and there in toronto but sober this time to try and get over my nightime AA. Fortunately these are all grindfests and i did not always have to use my routines but some aspects were beneficial.
AMOGing, i know when i used to go out with my friends we would all split up once we get in clubs. This is a definate NO NO. If you are always with your boys thats is a DHV! And even if u look like an idiot just dance, fuck it who cares? it also raises value and makes you seem more confident. I am probably a shit dancer but ive gotten better results when ive danced than not danced.
FTC works wonders especially if you are at a small event or small party. You hit on the girl a bit maybe grind then say i gotta see my friends sorry leave and come back to her after and she will fall inlove.
Boredom: one trick i always use is when im grinding a 8-10 girl pull out your cellphone, and fake text. I do this and half the time the girl bends over without me doing shit and i numberclose
Keep her shocked: If you see a girl hanging around all these huge obvious alpha males you know what you do? Okay i use this all the time you grind on her for like 10 seconds then if all goes well push her away with one hand and so that everyone can see you do that. She will think this guy is really something to push "ME" away. Come back to her after like 20 minutes and dont be apologetic. Also hopefully other hot girls will see you push her away.
if its not a grindfest just run your routines and you'll be good
I came to a conclusion after talking to these women over text and whatnot that they arent really the type of girls that I like. I like very swedish looking/ conservative girls who have a bright sense of style. I wasnt finding them in clubs and parties.
its probably been a month and a bit since i discovered daygame and im telling you its life changing. Cause honestly girls in the day are what these conversationalists rely on like myself. Its definitely not easy going to clubs for a smart skinny guy who wants an intellectual relationship. I started off just watching most the Daygame videos and advice on youtube from :
Yad and Tom are my favorite . Yad is not the hottest guy in the planet, he admits it but he works wonders infield. And Tom a skinny guy and oxford graduate considers himself a classic "nerd".
-Daygame blueprint (INTENSE) more than 15 hrs of video
-Conversation King (tom torero)
-Daygame podcast available on itunes
-Daygame book by tom Torero (I paid $27 after shipping to toronto) Definately worth it
Anyways after studying and during studying this my school life instantly changed and i met a few girls on vacation since then, i talk to them a lot over text convinced one to come to toronto in may! (almost guaranteed lay) and one girl in MTL practically wants to mary me. A girl from newyork is gonna be an easy lay if we ever meet again (shes agreed to it). Just shows the power of conversation and legitimacy. Ive been told by all three of these girl that i hold amazing conversation. And that im not a dick or the nice guy but the perfect combination of both.
Yet i do not have a girlfriend.
Fucked up relationships with the girls i know already due to past needyness and the nice guy syndrome so i dont want to go back to them. but i have also met other girls during the day who loved me and i could tell i was WOWing them. Im afraid to pull the triger and i was very picky of the tiny flaws in these pretty women. Also I changed opinions of myself on many girls i dont find attractive at my school but i know others do and they want me . But i dont settle for less than what i want.
There is one girl who is my "dream girl" i am just UNABLE to talk to i dont know why my AA gets tripled when i see her and actually have never approached her but... Ive talked to her a few times here and there, she goes to my school but is 2 years younger. The majority of times shes started the conversation. Oneitis has finally hit me. She is the only girl ive legitimately been attracted to in over a year. Anyways we smile at eachother in the hall every day but i cant approach her due to AA and lack of being able to stateshift as i am not in communication with many girls in my school anymore. I am certain if i can talk to her she will like me and i think she already has been crushing, she sees me with all the popular guys at school (DHV) and im older and i set off some good negs. Ive caught her staring at me quite a few times but... its been since november and i still havent numberclosed or facebook closed.
We usualy make heavy eye contact in the halls, and i get butterflies. And i always get a smile out of her. When i talked to her a few weeks ago she opened me asking if i can buy a ticket for her dance show. I didnt buy one but i ended up sneaking in. Anyways i negged her saying i didnt want to watch the show if she was in it, and we bantered for a bit she was playing with her hair and smiling and laughing a lot.
okay so i wrote that last week on the local toronto lair. a few days before i decided to man up and talk to her. (with the help of beer and kush) and hanging with hot girls for a few hours boosted my confidence
anyways i opened her like any daygame set, keeping a bit of distance and complimenting her on her show. she put her hand on her heart and said awwww and i was so out of it i couldnt scan for IOI's but idk if there were any. I didnt use my normal game as i was fucking out of it but i just asked her which class she was off to and i was about to leave and i asked her for her name and properly introduced myself, and shook her hand and say its nice to finaly meet you. This was not up to my usual standards but its strange. She wasnt as responsive as i hoped she would be
why not? Was it because of my weak game? She didnt ask me any questions the only good thing is i was talking to her for a few minutes and she still hadnt opened up her locker