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    izhaart is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Hot bubbly cheerleader

    There is one girl who is my "dream girl" i am just UNABLE to talk to i dont know why my AA gets tripled when i see her and actually have never approached her but... Ive talked to her a few times here and there, she goes to my school but is 2 years younger. The majority of times shes started the conversation. Oneitis has finally hit me. She is the only girl ive legitimately been attracted to in over a year. Anyways we smile at eachother in the hall every day but i cant approach her due to AA and lack of being able to stateshift as i am not in communication with many girls in my school anymore though I am many outside school. To be clear i am not an AFC. I am certain if i can talk to her she will like me and i think she already has been crushing, she sees me with all the popular kids at school (DHV) and im older and i set off some good negs. Ive caught her staring at me quite a few times but... its been since november and i still havent numberclosed or facebook closed.

    We usualy make heavy eye contact in the halls, and i get butterflies. And i always get a smile out of her. When i talked to her a few weeks ago she opened me asking if i can buy a ticket for her dance show. I didnt buy one but i ended up sneaking in. Anyways i negged her saying i didnt want to watch the show if she was in it, and we bantered for a bit she was playing with her hair and smiling and laughing a lot.

    okay so i wrote that last week on the local toronto lair. a few days before i decided to man up and talk to her. (with the help of beer and kush) and hanging with hot girls for a few hours boosted my confidence

    anyways i opened her like any daygame set, keeping a bit of distance and complimenting her on her show. she put her hand on her heart and said awwww and i was so out of it i couldnt scan for IOI's but idk if there were any. I didnt use my normal game as i was farking out of it but i just asked her which class she was off to and i was about to leave and i asked her for her name and properly introduced myself, and shook her hand and say its nice to finaly meet you. This was not up to my usual standards but its strange. She wasnt as responsive as i hoped she would be but she was smiling a lot. She is usualy a lot more flirty and bubbly. but im happy i finaly made the approach.

    why not? Was it because of my weak game? She didnt ask me any questions the only good thing is i was talking to her for a few minutes and she still hadnt opened up her locker

    Whats my next step? What shall i say when i see her at school tomorrow

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    Default Re: Hot bubbly cheerleader

    Good job so you finally caught up with her! Now heres the thing, you have to figure out another type of meeting with her something that brides you together! Did you show up to her show or not? Compliment her on her performance, but also neg her a bit! Get her number and ask her out for froyo/ or tell her you need help with a "project" make some bullshit project up that you think shes be useful in! Keep it Alpha, and make her chase you, if you find the signs of interest are increasing, keep playing and kino with her, BE RESERVED AT SCHOOL! Thats your charm, you have to keep her guessing, like this guy is the funnest coolest guy OUTSIDE of school, but why is he so focussed at school! She will die for you, woman want a guy with drive! So be cool and focussed at school, get your game on after school, less wierdos and peoples influence on you guys, and you have her one on one! Mentally shes yours! See what happens you hafta be proff about it! Otherwise you had the whole school year to approach and didnt, now you have a medium....you follow?

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    izhaart is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Hot bubbly cheerleader

    thanks that was insightful. I already did complimented her about the show and negged her that i didnt want to see it if she was in it.

    anyways tomorrow when i see her what should i say because i dont know her that well and shes not in my grade ill have to stop her in the halls walking

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    Default Re: Hot bubbly cheerleader

    Oh ok, so you gotta say, hey i heard your getting calls from hollywood ;p

    And say it would be cool to see you in the play but my cousins were here from florida, and i had to show them around ( build value) so she knows you come from a big family

    Make her know you are busy in studies, and have a tournament or something coming up!

    Her mindset will be this guy is unapproachable! Then randomly say hey, maybe you can help me out!!

    I have to get a gift for _____so and so...any suggestions? And see where it goes, text her neg her be friendly but unapproachable!

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    Default Re: Hot bubbly cheerleader

    I think she can sense your oneitis for her. She knows that you want her. Chicks can smell that from a mile away. My advise would be to game some other chicks at your school. It does not matter if you are attracted to them or not. Just try and attract them. She will see that you have other options and then you can go back to her.
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.

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    Default Re: Hot bubbly cheerleader

    Both of the commentors here have good ideas. Odlaw is right in gaming other women. It's a bad sign when the only time you can talk to her is when you are high and drunk. You need to revolutionize your mentality. A confidence boost is one thing you could use, and a reduction in the tension in yourself that you are creating is another. And please, don't ramble on about "Oh when I'm feeling good it isn't a problem". As I've learned in swimming, if you can do something good when you are tired, you can do it when you are at max energy. Force yourself to do something if you have to, but try you must.

    As for approaching her, you do need to initialize something. If you remember at least one thing memorable from the drunk-high encounter, use that in your first text or conversation with her. You want to try and bring the conversation back around to that fun moment in the conversation. You need to start flirting with her, and you need to show her that you have some balls.

    You're on some troubled ground. She probably thinks of you as non-man material due to your innability to talk to her or even act like a man when you're around her for most of the time. Fix your confidence issue, and you may have a chance with her.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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