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    Default Girl all over me when we date, but distant when we text / call

    Hey guys,

    First post, thanks in advance.

    I tried to search for a relevant thread but couldn't find one recently. As the title suggests, I'm currently seeing this girl that I picked up from a store.

    Whenever we go out she is all over me, kissing / groping holding hands, giving me signs like touching me and laughing at all the crappy jokes I pull. But as soon as we depart any effort from me to txt her or call her become futile. She's just started a new job for 2 weeks now, so I can imagine she is kinda busy.

    E.g. The other day I asked to catch up again for tonight, she said she needs to check her schedule at work and then she never got back to me. This morning I asked her what's going on and she said "can't tonight" nothing else, she's about to travel for a few days so I asked "so when are you off on your trip?" and she hasn't replied.

    Just seems confusing, and I havn't encountered this before which is why I signed up.

    Any help in if she's trying to game me, or how I should respond would be greatly appreciated!

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    Default Re: Girl all over me when we date, but distant when we text / call

    She's playing the game on you.( keep a strong frame of mind and don't give up)
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Girl all over me when we date, but distant when we text / call

    Hey, I'm exepriencing the same thing with a girl I've been dating.

    You suggested that "She's playing the game on you.( keep a strong frame of mind and don't give up)"

    What exactly do you mean, freeze her out for awhile, keep busy, then reengage, or continue to show her interest?

    I've been on several dates with her and its always me that's texting and setting up the dates.

    ?

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    Default Re: Girl all over me when we date, but distant when we text / call

    I would say you are making yourself available too much. She is scarce so you are very much intrigued to meet her. Why don't you make yourself unavailable? To make yourself unavailable you must go out and pick up. Once you have two other girls to date you won't even think of her and she will be chasing you.

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    Default Re: Girl all over me when we date, but distant when we text / call

    Thanks for the advice.

    If she just doesn't reply to txts, is there anything I can say after a few days like "so what have you been up to?" or do you think its better to pretend to send a wrong text to her like "oh man, you can't believe what happened to me last night!"

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    Default Re: Girl all over me when we date, but distant when we text / call

    I think you better go after other girls. Once you find other girls you will stop chasing this dodgy one. Later you can text her "I just saw your twin" or something. If she replies , reply with cocky texts rather than needy ones. You will come across as needy as long as you don't have other options.


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