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    qb3489ny is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default am i wasting my time or what should i do?

    Hey guys so id say a few months back my mom came up to me and told me she met a lady at my moms business. The lady was telling my mom while shopping that she was trying to find a decent guy for her daughter to date. So like what all moms do my mom mentioned me. When i got home my mom told me to email this girl on fb because she was expecting me to. So i decided what the hell sure. So i emailed her the typical hey whats up and why i was emailing her. 3 weeks later i heard back from her. She was stating how she was really busy and that she didnt get a chance to get back to me. I said no biggie want to exchange numbers? She said sure and i started texting her. I asked her few days later if she would like to meet up so we can meet she said sure she will get back to me tomorrow. Tomorrow comes dont hear from her. 2 weeks later, i get a text from her saying hey havent heard from you hope all is well xoxoxo. So was like wtf so i started texting her again. Asked her she was down for drinks and dinner the next night. she said sure let me get back to you with my schedule because of work. Next day comes, dont hear from her till 11pm she said she was stuck at work till late and she had a headache. I asked her what time she got out and she said 6pm... So whatever i ran into her at the bar by accident and introduced myself. We spoke etc. Then she kept staring me down. I deleted her on fb and her number because i was tired of screwing around. 3 months past and i get a friend request from her...... I said hey whats up. She says hey n2m u know blah blah blah. I said i got a new number here is. never got a text from her. Wtf am i suppose to do is this girl just nuts or what? So 3 months later i get a message from her yesterday asking how i been and so on, i said good, long story short she was dating some juice head who treated her like shit and she got burned so she text me and starts talking to me again and asks if i wanted to meet up with her saturday which i dont believe because she is so full of it. So i text her and told if she is down to go out saturday telling her what we should do and i never heard back from here even though she is the one that initiated it. Is this chick worth my time or no

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    Default Re: am i wasting my time or what should i do?

    Not sure what the girl is up to! Sounds to me like she is just wasting your time so you should cuts your losses and move on. Dont let this girl drag you down, go out and meet girls in person/open new links, improve your game..

    In the case that you do want to pursue this girl (for whatever reason), then try a phonecall rather than text? much more direct, or be dominant and set a date, say this weekend at bar XXX, at time XXX, cancel whatever plans you have as you are going to come chill with me. If this fails then dont waste your time bro!

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    Default Re: am i wasting my time or what should i do?

    Honestly the chances that anything will come from this are slim in my opinion. I mean if she was serious then she would have already went to hang with you. I am going through the same kinda thing with a chick from my college. I don't really care if we ever hang out or not but I am still texting her as a time filler basically. Lol. I mean you should still text her or whatever for the experience at the very least but don't get your heart set on ever hooking up or even hanging out with her. Keep the attitude that you do not care whether you ever meet her or not and if you do hang out with her then great but if not then you don't get hurt because you have made this huge fantasy in your mind about you and her. Hope this helps and god luck.
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.

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    Default Re: am i wasting my time or what should i do?

    Nope she seems to be stringing you along.do you want this?.there are many girls out there so i suggest focus on your game practice and then talk to her on the side.for now freeze her out and move on for a bit.focus on the skill more.

    The reason why am on talking to her on the side is i want you to practice game or her too .Not to say mess with her but if you drop her she may think you were offended which you were on some level.but don't let this get to you.keep moving forward.

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    Default Re: am i wasting my time or what should i do?

    thanks for the input guys i just dont understand girls like this if we arent going to hang why even text me and ask me? lol How should you go about texting a girl time gap wise. If i speak to a girl on the phone earlier in the day and i told her to let me know how she made out with her car and i dont hear from her 5 hours later do i text her and ask her the same question ?

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    Default Re: am i wasting my time or what should i do?

    The thing is that she is dating a guy (or some guys). She uses you as a pain killer so that when she has an argument or she gets dumped she texts you and talks to you! She has no interest in having a relationship with you whatsoever! The reason is that your mum has found her for you and you have not demonstrated having balls to go and pick her up! Other guys do so you are always at the bottom of her list. Forget about her and move on. Remember any internet dating/pick-up is coward because every lamer can do so.


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