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    Lightbulb need to send a girl i met few days ago a first fbook message... need advice

    Few days ago: I met a girl at a party through another lady friend... At first it started slow but later it progressed I had an amazing connection with her. We flirted, a lot of touching etc... but i was informed by her other friend who was a male that we met there that she has a bf. (not sure if its true or not) but it did prevent me for going for a kiss, so instead i kept on flirting and touching but no direct solid moves. ended the night with a stroll through the park and parted with a giant extended hug. (like i said i played it very safe, even though had a great connection and normally i would have easily went for a kiss..atleast

    Now: I added her on fbook, looked thru her account and she doesnt seem to have any pictures that would suggest a bf nor does she have a relationship status posted or anything. Green light? maybe?

    Anyway i wanna send her a first message, but im wondering what exactly to say... I was thinking something along the lines of "Hey it was nice to meet you last saturday, i had a great time and i hope to see you again soon. - short and sweet and see where im at... any advice? ideas ?

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    Default Re: need to send a girl i met few days ago a first fbook message... need ad

    Sounds like you deffo should have gone for the kiss anyway, sounds like she was all over you!You could send what you wrote, personally thats not my style, i like to open with something a bit different to what the standard AFC looking for a hook up would say. Examples could be anything to get a convo started like :
    -'oh my god did you hear about the fight at the party?!'
    -'glad i added the right person, couldnt tell it was you, you look completely different in your profile picture!'

    etc etc.

    You want to try and find out about the boyfriend situation without being too obvious, play the cube game or arrange to meet up and pretend you are going to read her palm and mention a you get the feeling she has a close bond with someone right now, perhaps a boyfriend? just simple ways of finding out without asking her straight if she is single.

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    Default Re: need to send a girl i met few days ago a first fbook message... need ad

    I'll snowball off what Zeus said and say you still definitely should have went for the kiss. There is no easier way to for a guy to kill all your progress than by simply saying she has a boyfriend. More times than not, it's either a rumor or he is trying to separate you from her so he can get a shot.

    I don't particularly like the direct route, or for that matter something that has to do with the Mystery Method. It's a great starting point, but its beginning to become a little out dated. Try extending off of something you guys talked about at the party. I can't give you any examples because I'm not sure what you talked about, but keep it light and fun, pick a topic that you talked about that was light and fun.

    If your connection was that great she'd undoubtedly love to here from you.

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    Default Re: need to send a girl i met few days ago a first fbook message... need ad

    Mystery method yes is a bit antiquated. I like direct game but it takes more calibration and also the ability to naturally keep up conversation.

    The cube remember that is taught in any psychology class, it is a general personality test that has been used to trick people into thinking that you know them well and gain trust. So if they are well educated they will know the test. It is also i some business classes as well.
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