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Thread: Looking for advice on how to get in with girl in complicated relationship

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    Default Looking for advice on how to get in with girl in complicated relationship

    I dont know the full story with this girl or why its 'complicated', but basically we go to the same university, i see her around quite a bit and the last two nights we have been out we have been very flirty and made out. Both days were in the space of 3 days, and both times she said it was that time of the month so couldnt go back to mine/hers.
    We text a bit in the day then i heard she was seeing someone/in an open relationship with someone who is currently in a different country, but its kinda been a long thing (she just moved to england this year for university). I asked her about this and she said yeah, but its an open relationship so she can still have fun, but moved swiftly off the topic. She replies to my texts but never instigates the texting or wants to meet up now (its been a week since those nights out).
    Any advice on how tot ake things from here would be gratefully appreciated

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    Default Re: Looking for advice on how to get in with girl in complicated relationsh

    Put some distance between you and her, if you're putting in all the work she's got you under her thumb. You shouldn't have asked her about her relationship. She knows your talking about her to other people, why should you care and why are you talking about her with other people anyway? It looks like she just wanted a little fun and that's it. Be aloof, see other people, invite her as the add on to your group of friends. If she refuses that, which is just basic friendship than don't waste your time trying to make it work.

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    Default Re: Looking for advice on how to get in with girl in complicated relationsh

    I didnt speak to other people about her, word just got around and one of her friends told me that she was seeing someone. I confronted her about it but probably shouldnt have looking back at it. We are both going out tonight and we have quite a few people in our flat for pre drinks so im going to invite her over and see what she says. Havent spoken to her in a few days but she keeps smiling/waving whenever she sees me.

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    Default Re: Looking for advice on how to get in with girl in complicated relationsh

    Depends what you want out of it. Personally I'd just keep things casual and continue building the attraction then approach the topic again when you have a more solid base and she is more attached, hence more concerned about losing you.


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