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Thread: Failed K-Close with bisexual HB8

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    Default Failed K-Close with bisexual HB8

    I gamed this girl (old schoolmate who I never ever talked to during high school, just knew who she was) in a party where we randomly met, sat down to smoke a cigarette and sit in a quite small armchair (really close to each other). Topics: sex, her sexual turn ons, what she looks first in a girl () etc. We talked for like an hour, just the 2 of us. I did great cold reading on her, she even asked me if I am a psychologist. There was heavy kino, we walked out of the place hand in hand (we played with holding strong then letting go, push-pull), she told the securities that I'm her boyfriend. I didn't show too much interest until then (negged her by calling her masculine, offering her a chewing gum etc.), then before her taxi arrived I tried to kiss her and she backed off immediately. She is in a relationship with her girlfriend for like 2 years now. I know that back in 3 or 4 years ago she was already a bit eccentric girl, but had 2 or 3 men in her life.

    When she rejected me I joked with saying 'ooh I really want to have a lesbian girl' but she was no way letting me kiss her. I didn't feel uncomfortable at all by it, just showed her the middle finger with a smile when I left her like I would to to one of my best friends). When I left and walked like 10 meters away, she called me to come back to her but I didn't listen, just walked away with a smirk on my face.

    What next? This girl was so honest about every topic we discussed that I'm interested in her in every possible way (sexually first of course, but I wouldn't even mind being friends with her if we don't make it to sex - I prefer the first option ofc.).

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    Default Re: Failed K-Close with bisexual HB8

    Just continue talking to her normally, build more comfort then go for it again.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Failed K-Close with bisexual HB8

    She obviously seemed interested. Tease her about not being adventurous/spontaneous, build more comfort but avoid getting trapped into the friend zone. Make it seem like you are where the party is at, you did well on walking away after she rejected you, kept her knowing that you are in control!

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    Default Re: Failed K-Close with bisexual HB8

    The only way I can build more comfort with her is on Facebook, since I don't have her number. Maybe I can 'bump' into her in some parties I know she will attend, or make up some witty opening message.

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    Default Re: Failed K-Close with bisexual HB8

    You did a lot of hand holding, but didn't hear anything about escalation. If you weren't able to touch her neck or ears, going for a kiss is premature. Let us know how far you got with kino before you went for it. Did she look at you while you were saying goodbye? Did you remember to look at her lips, eyes and then her lips again?

    Just asking.

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    Default Re: Failed K-Close with bisexual HB8

    Quote Originally Posted by mitkoberba View Post
    The only way I can build more comfort with her is on Facebook, since I don't have her number. Maybe I can 'bump' into her in some parties I know she will attend, or make up some witty opening message.
    Open her on facebook, it shouldnt be as hard as opening a randomer and you should be able to number-close as she already has some comfort with you. Avoid waffle chat though and try to arrange a date/casual meet up, this is a cheat way of getting her number as you can say you'll sort something then text her the details.
    Equally if you know what parties she will be going to, then definitely go, you want to seem like the social hub of everything and this should attract her more to your alpha-male image. Dont find her straight away and isolate though, talk to lots of people and float around conversations at the party before moving to her.

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    Default Re: Failed K-Close with bisexual HB8

    Quote Originally Posted by dragon6900 View Post
    You did a lot of hand holding, but didn't hear anything about escalation. If you weren't able to touch her neck or ears, going for a kiss is premature. Let us know how far you got with kino before you went for it. Did she look at you while you were saying goodbye? Did you remember to look at her lips, eyes and then her lips again?

    Just asking.
    I smelled her hair just before the kissing attempt, maybe not deeply and long enough but I did it and she was okay with that. I also touched her face (I trhink her nose) when we talked about her freckles.

    Yes, she looked at me when we were saying goodbye.

    I could have done the lips-eye-lips move more (actually I don't remember now if I have done it or not, I remember I looked directly at her lips for a few seconds, but this was long before the kissing attempt).

    Thinking back I should have done more escalation, good point dragon6900, thank you for that!


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