To start off-About me: Im a thin attractive guy, whos considered really funny and fun to be around by my friends(girls and guys, but girls laugh more), I always give people space because I like it myself(dont normally get attached or oppressive).
Okay, so theres this girl Ive gone out with about 3 times in the past month(hung out the second time the weekend after I met her). We never mentioned the word date for any of them but we obviously connected. Shes my good friends best friend. Face to face she seems totally into me, touching, laughing constantly, high energy, ignores her phone the whole time, playing with her hair, eating off the same utensils, resting on each other, etc etc etc. So Im really feeling her, she has a great time each time with me, so I was gonna ask her out over the phone this past Tues on an actual date, and was feeling very confident.. only one problem.....
Remember I said she never uses her phone when shes around me? Well she takes 10 mins-2 hours to return texts(like a 15-30 min average). Posts on facebook maybe once every 6 months lol and blah. But she usually eventually answers.
Now when I called Tues at about 5 pm she didnt answer, but then she texted me that she was at work(she usually gets off at 9), so I said cool Ill call you tomorrow afternoon then. Later that night she called, a little after 9, but I was jogging.. she did however leave a voicemail, it was playful, funny(like how she is face to face) and basically said "can you please call me back" at the end. So I tried calling her back 30 mins after but she didnt pick up, so I sent a text poking fun at her about telling me to call back but not picking up, threw in an lol it was all jokes, and I think I said Ill call tomorrow its all good.
Call Wednesday at about 4 pm and again no answer, normal. So I left her a voicemail mimicking hers she left me, again something she would find funny in person. Also sent a text saying "you are.. so hard.. to get a hold of", because it does get frustrating. This is where I started getting worried... she didnt respond the whole day, but I left her alone.
Finally I decide to give it one more try for the weekend, I REALLY wanted to ask this chick out, nice fun girl, cute, plays video games, she really intrigued me(I didnt overly show it I dont think until maybe now..) so again I call her around 2 or 3, leave a voicemail saying basically "I give up calling this week, if you wanna go out this weekend call me" also mentioned in it I had something I wanted to ask her, and slipped a few jokes in as well(dont worry it was quick). I think I hid my annoyed/frustrated tone well and tried to keep a cheerful rhythm with my message, dunno if I succeeded but I think I did mostly, thats why I made a joke or two. Now again.. the whole day.. no response......
So now here I am.. Im not hurt that she didnt answer, I dont get attached that easily, however whats bothering me is WHY isnt she responding, idk if I offended her, or shes playing hard to get, or she just suddenly lost interest. She even said in her voicemail to call her back, so I tried and she just ignores? I feel somethings wrong and Im the type of person that loves answers to everything, OCD runs in my family to a degree lol.
So idk, maybe you can help me out here, what do you think is going on here? Im going out of town for the weekend and am just gonna forget about her for a week as of right now. Lemme know what you think, thanks for any help!!