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    Default Need help with cute girl at the gym

    Hey guys I'm kinda new to this need some advise this is my story-
    I'm working at a gym and for some time now there has been this extremely cute girl coming in and as I do with everyone I say hey how are you and with her I always have a little longer conversation, didn't think anything of it but everytime she came in after thay we spoke for longer and longer which turned into an hour convo just at the counter, about a week passes and she turns up with her boyfriend to try out the gym (massive tosser lol skin tight shirt) but I didn't want to be a doush so when they were leaving I was speaking to her then he turned up after and just asked him how he went just to seem nice. About a week passes she comes and and long story short I got her number and said I should train with you sometime she said I'd love to, so trained the other day and flirting like crazy, and that nights texts me untill 1 am, now I'm stuck on where to go from here? Any ideas at all anything would help? Thanks guys...

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at the gym

    It seems like you've been doing alright so far. You need to somehow find out how long she has been with her boyfriend, if its a long serious thing then eject out of the situation, if its not been long or if she doesnt enjoy it, then you can work on that to weave your way in.
    If you play the game right boyfriends shouldnt be a problem at all. Pay close attention to anything she says about him, especially if its something he does to annoy her and play off it. put negative thoughts in her mind about him without verbally insulting him and make it seem like you are everything she wishes him to be.
    Arrange another time to train together and keep the flirting up, include some kino and pre-plan some interesting DHV stories/conversations to keep things fun and improve her opinion of you even more.
    Dont be too needy though and make her work for it a little bit, you dont want to come off as a creep!

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at the gym

    Hey mate she messages me tonight saying hey hunni what you up to? You still want to train tomorrow ?, I end up saying I'm watching a movie and I'm free around 1 if she wishes to train then, end up talking about her night and she had a massive fight with her bf due to her seeing inappropriate message from other girls in his phone? But I didn't want to talk to much about it, where do you think I should go from here?

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at the gym

    Hey dude,
    Ive just uploaded a big thread on ultimate boyfriend destroyers techniques which i think would be worth a read for your situation.
    The fight is perfect though, whatever you do you dont want to insult/belittle her boyfriend. Just say things like "Well im sure he really loves you and would do anything in the world for you so dont worry about it", as this will start to put doubts in her mind about how good of a bf he actually is, then you'll be there to fill the void.
    Train with her tomorrow, and make her laugh/ portray the image across that you are the better option than him.

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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at the gym

    It is a delicate balance when running gym game, but don't get too intense and don't trap them on a treadmill or any other exercise equipment otherwise they feel trapped quickly. Rather talking between exercises works well. Just saying ppl going to the gym want to work out and I know if someone interferes with my workouts I get easily annoyed.

    Aside from that have fun
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    Default Re: Need help with cute girl at the gym

    Like that quote extra. More guys need to get into that mindset.
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.


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