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Thread: Ultimate guide to boyfriend destroyer techniques!

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    Default Ultimate guide to boyfriend destroyer techniques!

    Whats up guys,
    Firstly i would just like to say i am not trying to encourage that you all go after girls with boyfriends and try to break up happy relationships, but this is just a general guide for when you know the relationship isnt working out/if the HB is totally unresistable. Ive been on various forums in my time, and one universal issue that people seem to struggle dealing with is how to game a girl with a boyfriend/AMOG'ers. Therefore i have decided to put together various threads and posts to create some great techniques to get around them.
    The first thing all PUAs should have in their mind that unless its a serious relationship/marriage, the boyfriend shouldnt disrupt your game and you should still play it as you normally would, dont let it put you off any HB! So lets get started:

    +1+ First ill start with an snippet from a field report of mine in which i successfully k-closed a girl with a boyfriend! read and learn:-

    I started speaking to this HB8 on facebook who i kinda knew and we just had a fun convo for 15 mins or so (more exact info on what was said can be found in field report) ... I then continue with the 5-lies game (very easy to learn and works a charm!), and we were betting for drinks on this night out we were both going to. After getting through 2 questions I receive a message from her boyfriend telling me to stop trying it on with his girlfriend (this guy is a classic AMOG). I reply not aggressively, but with witty comments, in that im not interested in her, just talking (knowing they are obviously sitting next to each other so she will be reading). I continue to out wit him, showing dominance over him infront of her, i then message her with:

    Me: haha its cool mate, we can stop playing, i see your boyfriend controls what you do. not my style personally but know plenty of people who do that may see you out sat x

    HB: I'm not controlled I'm my own person xx (the exact response i was looking for, triggering the thought that she is being controlled is just going to make her want to do some rebellious even more)

    Me: okay chickk. well dont feel like you cant say hi on sat if you see me, if you are allowed xx

    HB: Haha x

    All this was on Wednesday. I didnt want to be desperate so left it there, and then received a message on saturday morning with her giving me her number saying let her know when i'm out.. All i replied with was 'okay sure, if you're lucky x'. It was needless to say that i text her when i was a few minutes away from the club saying i was here, with her almost instantly replying that she was going to come find me. I met her about 10 minutes into being inside, and after another 15 minutes i had her sat down on a quiet coach area.. and we were making out..


    As you can see, planting that seed in her mind about her boyfriend being controlling was all i needed to do, i didnt need to insult him, try to amog him or anything! By saying this to her and that i understand but its not my style, i immediately create the image in her mind that i am the more desirable male.

    +2+ Of course just because a girl uses the excuse that she has a boyfriend, doesnt mean it is the truth, so dont attempt a boyfriend destroyer until you know she isnt lying! With that said, if she is telling the truth, the Straw man technique (SMT) is one which i have used on occasion and also does the job. Remember you dont want to belittle/insult her boyfriend, as this subconsciously insults her and her taste in men and will not help you in any way shape or form!
    The idea behind SMT is very psychological, what you aim to do is put a ton of social pressure on the AMOG/boyfriend by making him out to be bigger than life–something that he can never measure up to. Why do you do this? The weight of the enormous amount of social pressure you have now heaped upon him will cause him to crumble. He will blow himself out and slink away…all this and you’ve never insulted him. You have executed the perfect SMT on him. The funny thing is, you only have to do the Straw Man framing, they will do the rest. Once you put the ideas into her mind about the perfect boyfriend, she will soon start to find gaps in that and tear him down, then you can play on whatever gaps she finds and mould yourself to be someone that doesnt have those gaps. Some examples of this technique being used are:
    - “You have a boyfriend? Oh my god, it must be so incredible to be with a guy who knows how to fulfill you in every way you truly need to be fulfilled, i bet he knows how to have fun.”
    -“I’ll bet you’re like his little princess that he would go to the end of the earth to satisfy your every desire no matter how silly it was….and no matter what the cost was for him….that is so cute.”
    -“I bet he has such a great sense of humour to keep a girl like you to himself"

    See you are not once insulting him, infact you are building him up to be the perfect yet unrealistic boyfriend, and she does the rest and tears this imaginary model down. And then guess who is there to fill the voids she herself has created?

    +3+ Another technique is called 'High/Lo mindframe' in which you aim to get the idea across to her that you are the better option that whatever alternative she has. Once you have established she has a boyfriend/there is an amog, ask her the following questions:
    Me- Do you drive a car?
    Her- Yes i have XXX, why?
    Me- If i was to offer you a ferrari in exchange your your XXX would you take it?
    Her- Yes of course
    Me- Do you live in a house or appartment?
    Her- A flat
    Me- Well if i was to offer you a mansion, with bills fully paid for in exchange would you accept?
    Her- Yes i would
    You can continue this for a few more questions then drop in:
    Me- You have a boyfriend yeah?
    Her- Yeah
    Me- Your other answers would suggest that you chose the more desirable options, in this case it would be me..


    +4+ This final point is just some more ideas you guys can use as add ons to other techniques as they will not likely work alone:
    -If she is with a group of friends, befriend them all and win their respect and attention, once you win her friends you win the girl.
    -Pay attention to anything a girl says about her boyfriend especially if its bad, then subconsciously barrage her with the idea that you are everything she wishes he was.
    -Be witty and joke about her being boring, not adventurous, joke about her boyfriend coming back to watch, the list goes on etc.

    I shall keep this thread updated as i learn more but in the meantime hope this comes of some help to you guys, remember dont let a boyfriend/amog put you off gaming a HB10 if she is there to game!

    -Zeus
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    Default Re: Ultimate guide to boyfriend destroyer techniques!

    Wow this is actually a very good post. I'm going to try the second one but I don't really understand the concept of the StrawManTachnique that well.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Ultimate guide to boyfriend destroyer techniques!

    Cheers dude!
    What is it you dont understand about it? Its called strawman because of the fact that you are creating a man that isnt real, its a fake. You are not insulting her boyfriend, which in turn insults her and her taste in men, but its almost like reverse psychology, by that in telling her that her boyfriend must be amazing and all these wonderful things, she actually thinks about it and realises that he isnt perfect and all the things she doesnt like about him come into her mind.
    Basically you’re building him up to an impossibly high level….and he’s not going to be able to measure up to it. This will cause her to think of all his shortcomings and all her unfulfilled needs and desires [she attacks your straw man and destroys him]. Guess who she is gonna be thinking about filling those voids with? The guy that is so fucking alpha that he can talk to her like this. Also, no woman of quality would actually respect a guy like this. So even if she did think of him as being a quality guy, she will now start seeing how all those nice things he does for her, really demonstrates his low value….and you will implicitly gain value for covertly bringing this up.

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    Default Re: Ultimate guide to boyfriend destroyer techniques!

    I am confused by #3 please enlighten me ,why would she drop her current bf for you if you can't afford any of those things yourself?

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    Default Re: Ultimate guide to boyfriend destroyer techniques!

    Quote Originally Posted by FlowTime View Post
    I am confused by #3 please enlighten me ,why would she drop her current bf for you if you can't afford any of those things yourself?
    Hey man, basically with this you are trying to get her in the mindframe that you are of higher value than her boyfriend/guy she is seeing, hence the name of the game.
    You are not implying that you are going to buy her all these things - you are just making her aware that in every situation possible, she would chose an alternative of higher value, so with the car example, by asking if she would rather a ferrari or better car to what she already has, she would say she accepts. This is subconsciously feeding her mind with desires for higher value things to what she already has - so in the last question when you bring up her boyfriend, what you are doing is implying that you are of higher value than him/would be the desirable option in this situation. And although normally she would laugh it off/shrug it off, in her mind you have left a high value image of yourself which will help you with your game.

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