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    Default You get number text but she won't commit

    What do you do when you get a girls number and you are texting and sort of make plans but due to one thing or another they scheduling doesn't make it happen. Then you keep asking to hang out and she goes all maybe. My gut is to delete her number.

    I mean should I tell her that its not a big deal if she doesn't want to hang out. I just don't wanna be a chump and ask a bunch of times, or keep numbers for girls who are never going to text back.

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    Default Re: You get number text but she won't commit

    I would look to the root of your game. Check out what you have been doing up to this point. I like to think if a woman wants to, she will. And if she doesn't, they rarely come straight out and say it. But try to brush it off and let you down easy.
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    Default Re: You get number text but she won't commit

    Oh I agree. I guess this is mostly for online game where a girl gets a shit load of messages and maybe one day she agrees to give out a number but weeks later changes her mind

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    Default Re: You get number text but she won't commit

    If she flakes on you over text dont keep asking her again and again for other dates because she knows its just going to be easy to brush you off again. Like batman said, there must be something not quite up to par with your game because if you game a girl well, she will always want to meet up when you give her the chance. Can you provide any more info on how you number-close?

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    Default Re: You get number text but she won't commit

    Quote Originally Posted by Zeus101 View Post
    Can you provide any more info on how you number-close?
    Im not a pro but I would like to hear this also. Did you make clear that you´re taking her number to meet/day 2 her?

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    Default Re: You get number text but she won't commit

    Well I'm talking mainly online dating . Normally a couple emails, banter, see if there is an interest to hang out, then get number a little texting. Sometimes I can't always meet but normally they have something legit going on like school/finals or so i send a couple messages here and there but by the time they are free the initial momentum is lost.

    I get that people aren't free instantly but there seems to be too much delay

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    Default Re: You get number text but she won't commit

    Ahh okay, well its always going to be harder playing the text game when you havent met the girl before. She doesnt have enough comfort with you built yet, she doesnt know what you look like or anything, all she has to go on is what you are saying to her. maybe try to progress to a skype or phonecall before you suggest a date? Try to build a little more comfort with her first.

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