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    Default Flirtatious Girl with boyfriend. PLZ HELP!

    Hey guys. So I've had a... "certain" issue that I've needed answers to for a while now. I'm gonna give as much detail as possible, so I have a semi long story ahead. I hope most of you will read it, understand it, and respond.

    Anyway, I met this girl in my class about 2 years ago. We've basically been paired in the same group several times and have gotten to know each other quite well. So well, that we've placed each other in our top 5 people of our class. But she had been dating her boyfriend for about 3-4 years as of now... surprise. Anyway, during our first year, we didn't hang out much but we did talk a lot. It wasn't until our 2nd year that we got REALLY flirty.
    2nd year starts and we start being a bit different around each other. One night, we went out drinking with some of our friends (she was fairly smashed). She needed a ride home, so she started touching me more and got really suggestive to get me to drive her. I wasn't having the act, but I agreed to drive her home anyway. So as we're walking to my car, I did a hail mary and gave her a quick peck on the lips (she didn't expect it). And after 3 failed attempts at kissing her again, she finally broke, but no tongue. Since then, we've had a weird friendship. Sometimes, I would freeze her out for 2 weeks and she would hate it, but when I did give her a bit of attention, she wouldn't care. After all the BS tho, we agreed to just be friends (I tried kissing her again and failed, we disagreed on something, and she cried for something. But at the end we agreed to just be friends). I saw her again tonight, and once again she was being extremely flirty. We needed more to drink so as we both went to the liquor, we were getting touchy, grabbing each others asses, and looking into each others eyes. When we got back, our friends were about ready to leave, and I got the vibe that she wanted to hang out with her more. But due to my loudness, I wasn't allowed to go to my friends place where she was staying for the night. So we parted ways... for now LOL.

    So anyway, I'm not sure where I stand at this point. I'm not assuming she absolutely wants me, but I'm not assuming she doesn't either. It's pretty much confirmed that we both have a little bit of feelings for each other (we had a long chat), but can't act on it for obvious reasons. She says she loves her boyfriend, but she continues to flirt with me and says she's ALWAYS bored and depressed. I haven't been playing to her rhythm as I'm normally flirty anyway, but I'm unsure of what to do.

    What's your take on this guys? please let me know. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Flirtatious Girl with boyfriend. PLZ HELP!

    Seems like she tries to balance emotional satisfaction (loving her boyfriend) and physical excitement/satisfaction (flirting with you). This indicates that her boyfriend is not totally capable of satisfying her needs. If you can prove/show that you are better than her bf (without speaking ill of him), you can get this girl.

    HOLLA! BF Destroyer! Here you go!

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    Edit: Oh and don't forget to make a complete man out of yourself. It's usually not about the girl, but about you.
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    Default Re: Flirtatious Girl with boyfriend. PLZ HELP!

    Think Wolf has nailed this one, at the moment seems like she does have feelings for you, and that she isnt in the perfect relationship with her boyfriend (not many girls are these days). And she uses you to fill the voids that she has in her relationship with her boyfriend, as they have been together for 4 years the flirting could have died down and she misses it etc.

    I have uploaded a guide, which wolf has posted, and in that in explains numerous techniques you can use to eliminate the boyfriend completely without insulting him or belittling him. The StrawMan technique in my guide i feel will work perfectly for you here and is plays on the the holes in a girls relationship, worth a read!

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