Hey guys. So I've had a... "certain" issue that I've needed answers to for a while now. I'm gonna give as much detail as possible, so I have a semi long story ahead. I hope most of you will read it, understand it, and respond.
Anyway, I met this girl in my class about 2 years ago. We've basically been paired in the same group several times and have gotten to know each other quite well. So well, that we've placed each other in our top 5 people of our class. But she had been dating her boyfriend for about 3-4 years as of now... surprise. Anyway, during our first year, we didn't hang out much but we did talk a lot. It wasn't until our 2nd year that we got REALLY flirty.
2nd year starts and we start being a bit different around each other. One night, we went out drinking with some of our friends (she was fairly smashed). She needed a ride home, so she started touching me more and got really suggestive to get me to drive her. I wasn't having the act, but I agreed to drive her home anyway. So as we're walking to my car, I did a hail mary and gave her a quick peck on the lips (she didn't expect it). And after 3 failed attempts at kissing her again, she finally broke, but no tongue. Since then, we've had a weird friendship. Sometimes, I would freeze her out for 2 weeks and she would hate it, but when I did give her a bit of attention, she wouldn't care. After all the BS tho, we agreed to just be friends (I tried kissing her again and failed, we disagreed on something, and she cried for something. But at the end we agreed to just be friends). I saw her again tonight, and once again she was being extremely flirty. We needed more to drink so as we both went to the liquor, we were getting touchy, grabbing each others asses, and looking into each others eyes. When we got back, our friends were about ready to leave, and I got the vibe that she wanted to hang out with her more. But due to my loudness, I wasn't allowed to go to my friends place where she was staying for the night. So we parted ways... for now LOL.
So anyway, I'm not sure where I stand at this point. I'm not assuming she absolutely wants me, but I'm not assuming she doesn't either. It's pretty much confirmed that we both have a little bit of feelings for each other (we had a long chat), but can't act on it for obvious reasons. She says she loves her boyfriend, but she continues to flirt with me and says she's ALWAYS bored and depressed. I haven't been playing to her rhythm as I'm normally flirty anyway, but I'm unsure of what to do.
What's your take on this guys? please let me know. Thanks!