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    Default She at a concert for the weekend, should it text her..?

    Well this girl i like is out at a concert with a group of friends and she's gone for the whole weekend. We both know that we like each other, and she is pretty mature about being straight forward with me and all that. Do you think i should text her this weekend or let her do her own thing? I havn't texted her yet, and i feel that it's a good thing cuz it shows that i give her space and all that, idk.

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    Default Re: She at a concert for the weekend, should it text her..?

    You dont want to come across as needy/desperate and want to give her some space. If she said she'll text you and let you know how it is, then wait for her to text you. If she didnt then just wait till she gets back, especially as its just over the weekend, only a few days! Or send her a text saying something like 'Hope you are having an amazing time! Excited to hear all about it when you get back', something that doesnt put pressure on her to text you whilst shes there but lets her know you are thinking of her still.

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    Default Re: She at a concert for the weekend, should it text her..?

    Quote Originally Posted by Zeus101 View Post
    You dont want to come across as needy/desperate and want to give her some space. If she said she'll text you and let you know how it is, then wait for her to text you. If she didnt then just wait till she gets back, especially as its just over the weekend, only a few days! Or send her a text saying something like 'Hope you are having an amazing time! Excited to hear all about it when you get back', something that doesnt put pressure on her to text you whilst shes there but lets her know you are thinking of her still.

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    I wasn't going to text her anyways. We did made plans to hang out when she comes back, but she didn't say she will text me of how it went. We got into a conversation a few days ago that she wanted me to know that shes the type of person to do her own thing, and shes sorry if she doesnt text me a lot and shit. She said that she usually just forgets. How do you forget to text someone you like... i don't get it. Whatever though. I'm sure its not that big of a deal. I'm not a big texter anyways.

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    Default Re: She at a concert for the weekend, should it text her..?

    Well in that case don't text her, stick to what you were originally going to do. Wait for her to get back, then she'll have a reason to meet up with you - to tell you all about it. Sometimes a break from communication for a few days can help ignite some interest/get the girl seeking attention from you more. What do you want from this girl? - a relationship, friendship, f-close?

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    Default Re: She at a concert for the weekend, should it text her..?

    Quote Originally Posted by Zeus101 View Post
    Well in that case don't text her, stick to what you were originally going to do. Wait for her to get back, then she'll have a reason to meet up with you - to tell you all about it. Sometimes a break from communication for a few days can help ignite some interest/get the girl seeking attention from you more. What do you want from this girl? - a relationship, friendship, f-close?

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    This girl came onto me a few weeks ago and we hit it off. This will be our 4th time hanging out. The second time we've hung out we talked a lot about personal sh1t and it was obvious that we liked each other. I made a hint that i was going to ask her out and she said that she likes me, but doesnt want to jump into anything because we've only hung out 2 times. she also said that she isnt ready for any sort of relationship but still wants to talk to me. 3rd time we hung out i told her that i have a speech impediment and she was glad that i told her that. She said it wasn't a turn off or anything and doesnt mind it at all. After we're done hanging out this time im going to ask her out and see where that goes. Im looking for a relationship. But yeah, we've been just hanging out and havnt really done anything but she told me she likes all the qualities that i have so im sure thats a good thing.

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    Default Re: She at a concert for the weekend, should it text her..?

    Okay, well in your situation I would suggest to increase the sexual tensionn. She is giving you IOIs but doesn't want to jump into a relationship. She seems to have comfort with you - enough to tell you that she likes you, so now is a good time to start kino escalation if you haven't already. Playfully touch her and joke around, see if she responds well and continues giving you IOIs. If all goes well then go for a kiss on the cheek or lips, whichever you feel most comfortable with. Just a peck, then back away a few inches - if she wants it and you have played it right, she will then lean back in for more.

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    Default Re: She at a concert for the weekend, should it text her..?

    Quote Originally Posted by Zeus101 View Post
    Okay, well in your situation I would suggest to increase the sexual tensionn. She is giving you IOIs but doesn't want to jump into a relationship. She seems to have comfort with you - enough to tell you that she likes you, so now is a good time to start kino escalation if you haven't already. Playfully touch her and joke around, see if she responds well and continues giving you IOIs. If all goes well then go for a kiss on the cheek or lips, whichever you feel most comfortable with. Just a peck, then back away a few inches - if she wants it and you have played it right, she will then lean back in for more.

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    Alright thanks. I've noticed that she feels comfortable around me as in she tried to fix my hair and all that, and we have physical contact. As i said before she said shes the type of person to do her own thing, and i noticed that she tends to walk at her own pace usually. I mean we sometimes walk side by side but sometimes shes in front like shes in a hurry. It's like she wants to go home or something. She also makes me make all the decisions because she doesn't care where we go or what we do. It doesn't really bother me that much cuz then im in charge but should i worry about that?

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    Default Re: She at a concert for the weekend, should it text her..?

    Please listen to Zeus. For the love of god don't text her that will make you look needy! Wait until she comes back and set up time to hang out with her agreed.

    Read up on body language, kino, framing and tune in your non verbals. Also keep in mind you can use the body language information to tune into her. Anyone who knows me here knows I drive the non verbals hard and rightly so. The best banter on earth is useless if your non verbals are weak.
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    Default Re: She at a concert for the weekend, should it text her..?

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Please listen to Zeus. For the love of god don't text her that will make you look needy! Wait until she comes back and set up time to hang out with her agreed.

    Read up on body language, kino, framing and tune in your non verbals. Also keep in mind you can use the body language information to tune into her. Anyone who knows me here knows I drive the non verbals hard and rightly so. The best banter on earth is useless if your non verbals are weak.
    I wasn't going to text her anyways. I'm going to wait till she texts me. What are your thoughts on the previous thing i posted?

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    Default Re: She at a concert for the weekend, should it text her..?

    Agree with hometown here, get to know about body language and non verbals more, will definitely help your game! Here walking off infront and making you decide where to go doesnt seem to me like she is giving you control/power, after all she is the one telling you to decide where to go - and you oblige.
    It seems like you want a relationship and she doesnt quite want one yet , and a situation like this will mess up your game if you arent experienced enough. You need to build sexual tension first and get that kiss before you even think about a relationship.

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