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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    Ahhhh... Re-ask as a compilance test... I totally did not think of that. You make a good point. I guess that is why I am here to learn haha. My mindset was "There is no need to ask for her # because it is not necessary." That was the extent of my thought process.

    Regarding the other point you made, the # has not changed. My friend and I used that # to setup the dinner, so it works.

    What do you guys think of the bowling alternative? I thought about setting it up sometime next week. I cannot set it up this week because of finals.

    Should I be communicating with her on and off throughout this week before setting it up or should I not communicate with her at all for several days to not seem needy then setup the event towards the end of this week?

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    Regarding the other point you made, the # has not changed. My friend and I used that # to setup the dinner, so it works.
    haha it's one of those "just in case" things

    -bowlings fine, it's fun but make sure their wrist isn't hurt, otherwise go for something else

    -you can text her, i would suggest maybe once daily just to keep you there and gradually increase towards the date

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    I talked to a friend about my situation. When she asked me the question "do you have a gf?" during the topic of relationships in our dinner conversation, my friend believes that she only asked that question to be nice and and to contribute to the conversation; it was not an IOI.

    My question is... How do I know whether this question was an IOI or was a comment (and nothing more) she made to contribute to the conversation?

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    UPDATE: Before I was able to setup the bowling event a few weeks ago, the girls suggested we go on a vacation to some nearby island. I told my friend to text them asking for a date because I wasn't sure if I could tag along because the finals for spring quarter was coming up. I finished my finals, and I asked my friend "what happened to the vacation?" He said the girls never get back to him with a date.

    Today(Monday) was the first day of summer school. It turns out that I have an English class with her for 6 weeks before she transfers. After class was over, I did some brief catching up with her and asked her what other classes she was also taking during summer. I walked her to the parking structure and patted her shoulder before parting ways to our cars.

    My question is... What is the next step?

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    Another update: I just got a text from her Tuesday morning say that she dropped the class.

    I thought it would be easier to isolate her after class, but now she no longer has this class with me. What do i do now? I am stumped?

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    suggest a meetup (state one) and then gauge her reaction based on that, and then if you two meet up cool, if not well i'm sure there's someone else worthy of your time


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