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    Default Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    Hey guys! I am wondering if you can help me through this process. I am going to have dinner with a friend (male), old classmate (female), and her friend (probably a female); it is a party of 4.

    Recently my friend ran into one of my old classmates. My friend said that she would like to get together and catch up. Now we have this dinner setup. I was interested in her a couple years back, but i was too inexperienced to know what to do. I ended up moving on. Now that I have another opportunity in a couple days, how do i go about the process of making her my girlfriend?

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    Hi Man!
    I am no expert at all, but if I was you I would leave it casual for now. See if she changed during the years, maybe you wont like her anymore? Obviously be fun witty slightly cocky too which should get her interested, but first you should see if the orange is worth the squeeze

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    Dont set your mind on anything just yet if you havent spoken to her in a while like cesar says. Dont just talk to her at dinner though, engage the whole table and be the centre of attention. Learning a few cool magic tricks would be perfect for you as you have a small audience so will be able to keep everyone captive. If you still like her at the end suggesting doing something else another time soon, and get her number to arrange something for the rest of you to do another time.

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    The dinner is tmrw night. Just to clarify, I should take it easy and go with the flow right? No need for kino, at least for now right? I will keep you guys updated. Thanks for replying! =D

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    You could try some light kino after you have spoken to her for a while and if you still do like her. But dont isolate her, keep engaged with everyone at the meal, the the centre of attention

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    Light Kino is always good. If she mentions it then tell her you are just a touchy feely guy and she will be cool with it. If you do NO kino and do like her then try to kino later she may start feeling uncomfortable.
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    Update: During the dinner, we talked about various things. There are 2 moments that stood out, at least to me. (There could be other signals that I failed to recognize due to my inexperience.)

    1. She asked if i had a gf during the topic of relationships in our conversation. I don't remember how the conversation develop into that topic, but it did. I replied by saying "no comment" with a smile trying to be mysterious. I was not sure if this was the right move, but that is what i did.

    2. She asked where do you guys live now? After my friend's response, i said "I used to live in X, but now I live in Y." (The X and Y are used to protect my identity. In the conversation I actually said the cities). Her face and her eyes lit up. She said "Really?! I am moving to Y soon. Do you live in North Y, South Y, or West Y?" I said "Why do you want to know?" She replied "Because i want to know if we are neighbors?" My response with a smile was "Suppose i don't want to be neighbors with you. That's how much i hate you." She laughed. Again similar to the previous response. I was trying to be mysterious and not answer her question directly.

    After the dinner, the girls suggested that we should stroll around a nice neighborhood. I suggested bowling which both of the girls accepted instantly, but then they quickly took back what they said because her friend sprained her wrist. We ultimately drove to a nice neighborhood. We strolled around and observed the nice houses. Then we got dropped off and this was the end of the night. After that night, I am still interested in making her my gf. What is the next step?

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    First point was a strong IOI, however i would have given a different response in the situation. perhaps something more like a teasing NEG: "oh, why are you so interested to know ay?" or something like "Luckily for you i dont..", Just to add a bit more flirting in there.
    Did you get this girls phone number? Maybe say something like "well considering that we could potentially be neighbours soon, we should really get to know each other a bit more, let me take you for a coffee tomorrow" etc.

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    I didn't need to ask her for her number that night because I have already obtained it a couple years back. I thought about re-suggesting bowling with the same group of people as oppose to asking her out for coffee/tea. Would that be a good alternative or would you guys still recommend asking her out for coffee/tea?

    I don't think i will do well in a coffee/tea place because i have burned through most of my conversing material during the dinner haha. I talked about the usual stuff. Don't you guys run out of things to talk about?

    P.S. Thanks for replying guys! =D

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    Default Re: Need help with an old classmate that I am going to have dinner with.

    Tommy even if you get the number a few years ago, it wouldn't hurt to reask for 1. to see if she hasn't changed it 2. used it as compliance to see if she'll give it again ( chances are she would )

    Don't you guys run out of things to talk about?
    lol yeah but in the silence you can do something physical to draw convos again


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