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    Default Re: Did I strike out? Or do I still have a chance?

    ^So what your saying is for example:

    I would start a conversation about something then I would slowly stop my words and just look at her?

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    Default Re: Did I strike out? Or do I still have a chance?

    Or if you are talking to her, sitting next to her on the bed, be looking at her when you are talking, then after you finish hold your gaze with her and see what she does yeah. But you could do this anywhere doesnt have to be in the bed room

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    Stick a £50 note onto your forehead and talk to a stripper.. If you can get her to not think about the note, you are gold.

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    Default Re: Did I strike out? Or do I still have a chance?

    Okay so I just read up on some IOD's and I noticed she has most of the text IOD's that were listed:

    Text IODS
    -Responses are often short
    -Message response time ranges from very late to never
    -Emotion appears to be lacking in the conversation
    -You are always the one initiating the interactions **(besides her asking me to go with her to parties)

    And also If i didnt mention before I won her a prize at an arcade and she held onto it all night until we got back to my place. And when she left she left it here. And I texted her playfully telling her she left the prize I worked so hard on. And her response was "oh that was for me? I didnt know oops"

    I just don't know if I'm reading the signals wrong or if shes playing with me. It's like going to hawaii and then getting tsunami'd all the way to alaska!

    Well if anyone has any input on this let me know. Thanks again for listening brothas!

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    Default Re: Did I strike out? Or do I still have a chance?

    oh and btw, I did a name change if anyone was confused*

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    Default Re: Did I strike out? Or do I still have a chance?

    Don't look for her reactions too much focus on attracting her more.when she left that at your place you shouldn't have asked her.cuz well you actually won it.her attraction was really up at that time.when you like a girl you must get physical with her sort of.that could start any time you're out with her.

    I just don't know if I'm reading the signals wrong or if shes playing with me.
    The reason why things seems to spiral and g back uphill is cause you keep attracting her and killing it sort of.for now lets say she is half attracted to you.When she is at your place another simple thing you can try is make sure you hold her hand through out the tour at key times and let go.when you get to the room pin her to the wall and kiss her.
    put your hand under her thighs and then carry her and throw her on the bed.it begins.with the wall thing be careful you don't smash her head against the wall put your hand at the back of her head whilst...on throwing her on the bed make sure you are close to the bed.if you prefer you can stick to kissing and escalating against the wall.don't stay there for too long though

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    Default Re: Did I strike out? Or do I still have a chance?

    I'll for sure try that out hardrock. Sounds like it could either be exciting for a girl or scare the sh1t outta her though. Guess you gotta just approach it right and with the right confidence! haha.

    But anyways so I left off on the last text being me telling her she left the stuffed animal at my house--blah blah--- and I was the last text saying "haha mhm" with no response after that. soo...

    Its been a week, should i text her tonight and ask her what her plans are then suggest taking her out? or wait until I see her again to build up attraction instead of contacting her? cause especially if she reads my text THEN sees the previous text that made me sound incredibly like an afc, she might get turned off right? let me know what you pro's think! thanks!
    Last edited by Chache; 06-08-2013 at 10:25 PM. Reason: fixing typing errors

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    Default Re: Did I strike out? Or do I still have a chance?

    Sounds like it could either be exciting for a girl or scare the sh1t outta her though. Guess you gotta just approach it right and with the right confidence! haha.
    Yep.not too rough though with the outlined prev it should be fine.

    Take your time on asking her out straight away though.You need to build attraction by sending her a text that is engaging and fun.
    it your time to wipe the slate clean and if she seems engage hint the meet up.
    you should also specify the day and the time & place.if you haven't tried that already.

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    Default Re: Did I strike out? Or do I still have a chance?

    Before I post a big update. How do I know if I'm in the friendzone or not? I'll explain why I'm asking this later cause I'm short on time. But what's a good way to find out? Or signs at all? Let me know while i'm out! Thanks braddahs!

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    Default Re: Did I strike out? Or do I still have a chance?

    It doesn't matter what happened.this is a journey.whatever happens you just keep moving forward learning and bouncing back as needed.failure is fine on some levels but not taking action is BAD.
    I assume you took some sort steps at least.to answer your question in your dynamic might be different.sometimes generic advice is not needed.PEACE

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    Default Re: Did I strike out? Or do I still have a chance?

    Alright so big update:

    So after all the missed opportunities and what not, my target told me we should try eating at a certain spot that we talked about before.

    At the end of dinner I ended up paying and said "since you paid last time".

    And so we ended up going to a ball game but-- I dont know if I messed up on this part but I invited our mutual friend with us
    But anyways after all that is done we head home.

    And in between all this my target's ex husband has been talking to her again.

    Hopefully all this makes sense. And I have no idea what to do from here. It's like im in a hole and I have no idea how to get out.
    Last edited by Chache; 06-23-2013 at 05:42 PM. Reason: text clarification editing


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