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    Default Can't Figure Her Out..What Should I Do?

    Hello all, this is my first post here so I'll try and make it as short as possible. Over the past few months I've been talking with a girl I use to work with and we hangout whenever she comes into town (she lives 4 hours away). Well we got together over the weekend and went out to celebrate a mutual friend's birthday. I drove because I offered to DD and we went out and had a good time (even though clubs aren't my scene). She would kiss me on the cheek when I brought her a drink and my buddy told her how I was gentleman which she said she already knew. So when I took her home we sat in my car and made out for about 30 minutes without doing anything else (Even though I told her that I wanted to do things to her). Same thing happened a few months earlier when she slept over at my house and she didn't want to do anything but make out and tease me. She said if I stick around then it will happen but as I said that was about 4 months ago. We both talked about not looking for anything serious right now but she told me how much she loves sex but not with just anyone. So I texted her the next day trying to go out but I later flaked because I had work in the morning...2 days later I texted her asking what time she was leaving to go back home and I got no response. I'm just interested in how I should handle this girl...I was thinking about asking her if I could maybe visit her sometime. Thanks guys

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    Default Re: Can't Figure Her Out..What Should I Do?

    Take it as a challenge when she says she doesn't want to do anything. Ie: sex. You're letting her control the situation instead of yourself. You have to make the move and TEASE HER!! Not the other way around. You'll never know what she really wants until you really try to have sex with her. ( don't ask build up to it but if she's serious about it at that poit then there's nothing for you to do). I believe she's just sh1t testing you and you've been failing hard
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Can't Figure Her Out..What Should I Do?

    @marvilo Yea I thought the same exact thing. I would try and feel up her legs or put my hands up her shirt as a way of teasing and she would just take my hands and move them back to her side. I'm just confused because I tried to take it to the next level but I got rejected and I'm not about to be a rapist and be forceful making her do something she doesn't want to do. I don't think I've ruined my chances with her but we'll see...if so then on to the next one!

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    Default Re: Can't Figure Her Out..What Should I Do?

    Quote Originally Posted by Brownie90 View Post
    @marvilo Yea I thought the same exact thing. I would try and feel up her legs or put my hands up her shirt as a way of teasing and she would just take my hands and move them back to her side. I'm just confused because I tried to take it to the next level but I got rejected and I'm not about to be a rapist and be forceful making her do something she doesn't want to do. I don't think I've ruined my chances with her but we'll see...if so then on to the next one!
    Punish her dude,switch roles,she has to seduce you now,she's talking about sex yet she won't give it to you ?Have you seen the movie spread ?When a woman says she won't give it to you before you even tried,you're getting some.In this case when a woman says she LOVES sex yet she won't give it to you,you should be getting some for sure.

    Next time,if you try,and she takes off your hand or says something,agree with her,and just do something paying no attention to her,if it's at her place you could say you have to leave,kiss her goodbye on the cheek and leave(act cool about it,don't have a sad/pissed off face or something).

    After that,she's the chaser,you don't do shit.

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    Default Re: Can't Figure Her Out..What Should I Do?

    Make her work for you! If she wants a kiss, go in for it and at the last second turn back and give a innocent peck on the nose and say something like " not yet, i don't think you can handle this level yet". BOOM! Now she'll be like wtf I thought he wanted me( it'll make her rethink things. Also talk to other women too. Let her know you got options, even go as far as to texting other girls when you're in her company.( don't just over do it and slap her in the face with the phone and say " look at all these women all over me").
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Can't Figure Her Out..What Should I Do?

    Like the other guys said, make her do the work. Show you want her but you don't need to. In order to get the girl you have to genuinely not care about care if you do get her. You could also try a shut out. When she moves your hands back to your side, stop tue kissing and interaction. Don't act pissed off or anything, just be like a girl stopping there turns you off and just have a distant interaction. She'll be like "hang on, a minute ago I was enjoying the intimacy with him, now it's gone, he doesn't want me? I will win his attention back".

    People look at this as deceitful, but it's not, you can't trick her into going further if she really doesn't want to, so it's still up to her, but you control the situation.

    Good luck, bro.

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