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    Default Re: Go three months without contact?

    Ok I'm losing my self-control, and don't know that I can go much longer without trying to talk to her. What can I do? I'm asking now because usually I ask for advice after I say the wrong thing, so I thought that this time I'd try before.

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    Default Re: Go three months without contact?

    Why are you so hung up on a girl you only dated once? The best advice not in here is get the fuck over her and move on.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Go three months without contact?

    why don't you talk to others girls for a bit.i think you need to be open till you are exclusive.even then you may talk to other girls innocently.

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    Default Re: Go three months without contact?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Why are you so hung up on a girl you only dated once? The best advice not in here is get the fark over her and move on.
    Wow, you're right. A few days getting out there and talking to other chicks has made me accept that. Sorry for being such a whiny little b*tch, I'm new at this stuff. If this girl ever decides to contact me she's gonna be the one working for my attention, not the other way round. POF. Thanks.

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    Interesting results in this one after a long no contact period. She wished me happy birthday on facebook over the break and liked a few of my photos.
    But now that we're back on campus, she is deliberately avoiding eye contact and pretending to not see me when she walks past (in small groups to be fair)


    Thanks to you guys, I have many options now, and don't see this girl as the "one" or particularly special, but I'm interested as to what you think is happening.

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    Default Re: Go three months without contact?

    shit test!.check your body language.are you too open when you see her.next time you see her go the opposite direction, or avoid eye contact too much.be social.don't be the one walking around venue be talking to people both men and women.remember you first acted a bit needy so its normal she is a bit cautious.once you do the above or sub communicate it somewhat.she may let her guard down.bring her in.

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    Default Re: Go three months without contact?

    Very interesting.

    I did what you said, and yesterday she came over and hugged me and said hi. We had a small talk kind of chat, and she said that we should hang out sometime.

    Leave it and wait till she initiates again, or text, or wait till I see her again and move things forward? What do you think?

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    Default Re: Go three months without contact?

    Freeze her out for a bit then move in.

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    Default Re: Go three months without contact?

    Ok, I'm thinking of texting her asking if she wants to catch up. No harm done either way right?

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    Oh and I should add that she's carried on the previous method of ignoring eye contact and interaction at all costs but continued to like my facebook statuses...


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