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    Exclamation GF X sleep over

    Hi
    my gf and i live in a student dormitories
    I have my own place but we sleep and spend most of our time in her place.

    there is a film festival next week, and today she asked me If her ex boyfriend can sleep in my place for a week when he coming to town.

    honestly I like her ex and I knew them when they were a couple it just feels strange to me, am I being a prick or should I tell her that is too weird for me and he should find some other place to crash.

    either way were going to be seeing him the next week when he comes to town.

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    Default Re: GF X sleep over

    There's nothing wrong with feeling uncomfortable with it... it's only natural. I'd say just talk to her about it and explain how it makes you feel a little uneasy.

    As long as you're calm and collected she should be fine with it and respect how you feel. Relationships are all about communication.

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    Default Re: GF X sleep over

    If you feel weird about this then theres something wrong.how did your ex come into the picture in the first place.now keep it cool but you may start opening your options.not saying hit on girls but start talking to them innocently.run game

    She seems to have a lot of options and is obviously in touch with them.are you in a relationship when you have all these tools and may have almost any woman .
    In a nutshell you need to send a message to your girl letting her know you have options and are not to be pushed over.(huge sh1t test)

    As for the guy he is not your friend squash that memory.he may be mocking you.common even if he likes you its obvious the dynamics doesn't favour the two of you.You want the same girl.you just got ahead.

    you may update this thread.

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    Default Re: GF X sleep over

    Ask her if your ex or another girl can stay with her and see how she feels. If she isn't OK with it, then tell her he can't stay.

    The best trick to this if possible is to actually do that. Get a girl you know to stay over your Gf place for whatever. Tell her its just a friend. And smile when you say this lol. You will see her reaction easily. The main thing I say in these types of things is "you wouldn't want me to bring over another girl. And I wouldn't because I respect our relationship. So if you don't respe t it enough that you can't live without your ex, then maybe you aren't the girl I thought you were. Maybe we should just be friends." The Fword (friends lol) is powerful. If she even thinks for a second you will drop her and become just friends, she will change her tune.



    I feel that this issue is a test. Perhaps you were too nice to the ex bf when u met him or were friends before. Its never a good idea to be friends with the ex. Respectful courteous yes... but not buddies.
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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