Re: To needy, or time for her to chase?
Yea, what all the posters have been saying on here is starting to become more and more true, and she just proved it right there.
She is using you.
Now she's getting miffed because her free fun fest is coming to a screeching halt. To answer all of your questions, to make you look the best, and to blast that girl off of her pedestal, give her the "Let's Just be Friends" speech. This is not a good girl to spend your time with, and you can definitely find better.
Here goes how you should word it:
"Recently, I've been doing a lot of thinking about us, and I think it would be better if we just remained friends."
She is definitely preparred to give this speech. I know this conversation is heading in that direction. If you give this to her, then this will shock her. It will make her literally like "What the hell?" Typically, girls like this are almost never preparred for this kind of speech. This speech also makes it look like that YOU have determined that she is not good enough for you, not the other way around. This will drive her mad one way or another. She would have lost, and by the sounds of it, she won't take it lightly.
I think the best perk of doing this is that you can leave with the satisfaction of saying that you are the better and you won in this battle against the Wicked Witch of the West. Congratulations, you are the Man who said No to her leeching ways.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X