This one's kinda got me scratching my head. (Sorry for the wall of text)
HB7 is a waitress at a local restaurant that I go to on occasion (probably once every other week). However, she is also a regular at the same bar I DJ at. Starting off it was very light, playful kino (stroking the cheek, squeezing the knee, leading the elbows) getting to know this one was pretty easy as she's very friendly, quite the flirt. This went on for about two weeks.
I knew this one was going down when I passed the $hit Test a week ago. "Oh have I shown you my son?" If there was a scoring system, I'd say I passed with an A++. Didn't initiate a number close until this past Saturday. Went off as planned, she even drew me a picture of a bear.
Here's where it gets tricky (for me at least). I never had to use the number, after loading all of the sound equipment from DJing that night, she was getting PAWED down by a walking bottle of whiskey. I came by asked if she was "okay" and proceed to go get paid. She follows, we continue talking. All of the IOIs that I can think of happen within a matter of minutes and I get the Kiss-close. Or so I thought, back to her place we go. Roommate leaves us alone, we traipse around for a few before heading to the bedroom. F-close buddy... 6 times.
Sleep, more s3x, breakfast/coffee, s3x. I leave for work. We make verbal plans as I'm leaving for dinner that night with her son. That goes great. Further Verbal plans for another "slumber party" 2 days later. She cancels due to scheduling conflicts w/ her kid. No bigs, I have laundry to do anyway.
NOW... we have plans for Saturday with a possible "Slumber Party" for tmro night. But, I feel like I'm getting myself a little too close to the "Texting Buddies" Zone. She's mainly initiating contact. I'm spacing the returns pretty well. But, I'm feeling like I'm not escalating enough and putting too much in the way of words into my messages.
Should I kinda lay back for the next day with only a "Hey StarBuck (she looks like StarBuck from BSG) drinks on Crockett tomorrow, I'll pick you up at 11;19." Or square out?