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    Default Need help refining my text game with a SUPER confident HB7.

    This one's kinda got me scratching my head. (Sorry for the wall of text)

    HB7 is a waitress at a local restaurant that I go to on occasion (probably once every other week). However, she is also a regular at the same bar I DJ at. Starting off it was very light, playful kino (stroking the cheek, squeezing the knee, leading the elbows) getting to know this one was pretty easy as she's very friendly, quite the flirt. This went on for about two weeks.

    I knew this one was going down when I passed the $hit Test a week ago. "Oh have I shown you my son?" If there was a scoring system, I'd say I passed with an A++. Didn't initiate a number close until this past Saturday. Went off as planned, she even drew me a picture of a bear.

    Here's where it gets tricky (for me at least). I never had to use the number, after loading all of the sound equipment from DJing that night, she was getting PAWED down by a walking bottle of whiskey. I came by asked if she was "okay" and proceed to go get paid. She follows, we continue talking. All of the IOIs that I can think of happen within a matter of minutes and I get the Kiss-close. Or so I thought, back to her place we go. Roommate leaves us alone, we traipse around for a few before heading to the bedroom. F-close buddy... 6 times.

    Sleep, more s3x, breakfast/coffee, s3x. I leave for work. We make verbal plans as I'm leaving for dinner that night with her son. That goes great. Further Verbal plans for another "slumber party" 2 days later. She cancels due to scheduling conflicts w/ her kid. No bigs, I have laundry to do anyway.

    NOW... we have plans for Saturday with a possible "Slumber Party" for tmro night. But, I feel like I'm getting myself a little too close to the "Texting Buddies" Zone. She's mainly initiating contact. I'm spacing the returns pretty well. But, I'm feeling like I'm not escalating enough and putting too much in the way of words into my messages.

    Should I kinda lay back for the next day with only a "Hey StarBuck (she looks like StarBuck from BSG) drinks on Crockett tomorrow, I'll pick you up at 11;19." Or square out?

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    Default Re: Need help refining my text game with a SUPER confident HB7.

    What do you want from this girl? Relationship or just s3x?
    From the sounds of things its going into f-buddy zone, where there is no much emotional connection, just s3x.
    If you want a relationship with this girl then you need to get more intimate with her and get work with her emotions. Fractionation is a psychological technique used to take a girl on an 'emotional roller-coaster' and results in a much deeper emotional connection with her than before. Try to shorten the texts up a bit but keep them flirty and funny. Hope this helps

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    Stick a 50 note onto your forehead and talk to a stripper.. If you can get her to not think about the note, you are gold.

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    Default Re: Need help refining my text game with a SUPER confident HB7.

    As I am moving across country in less than a year, I'm in no rush to get into a relationship. On the other hand it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world. I've never done an F-buddy to relationship transfer before, is that something I need to have figured out before moving forward?


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