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    Default Advice on a cautious HB9

    OK so I'm messaging a girl on pof and basically the last guy she dated was a complete loonatic!

    He keeps messaging her and has even created new accounts after she blocked him. He even wished her dad would die!

    She blew out my first n-close and after I carried on and pushed past that she explained that she doesn't give out her number until she's met someone...

    she's 28 and I'm 23 so there is a gap.

    How do should I approach it? So far I'm just being cautious and staying off anything too sexual or risk until I have more comfort.

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    Default Re: Advice on a cautious HB9

    Nevermind, I used my noodle. I got her to install kik, no numbers no riks but still the texting gateway.

    Date tomorrow night.. GAME ON!

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    Default Re: Advice on a cautious HB9

    What is this kik you speak of!?

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    Default Re: Advice on a cautious HB9

    It's an instant messenger service, kind of like what'sapp. It doesn't require a number but goes straight to the phone.

    Snapchat is also a fun one.

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    Default Re: Advice on a cautious HB9

    I have snapchat, and I also have Voxer, which is like sending voicemails back and forth between each other. Problem is, there are very few of my friends who actually use it. I do find a high amount of potential in it, but it just needs a greater following.

    As for the girl, it's just a matter of trust and security. She has a creepy guy threatening her and making her life misserable. You have to present yourself as a man who is not like that. In addition, you need to show yourself as this fun-loving, interesting guy who is also a strong haven for her, away from the creepy ex.

    As topgunningit said in another post I saw, you have to be her pillar. Be her happy support, and things will go alright.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Advice on a cautious HB9

    Yeah that's the route I've gone down. Just light teasing then changing tone when she hit's something serious i.e. the ex.

    She's really keen now though


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