How do I deal with a girl that swings around?
I've had this pop up occasionally where this girl that I've tried to flirt with just texts me out of the clear blue. I've had one successful instance where this has happened, and I managed to get a good ball rolling and some private in-person interaction with her.
I just had this again occur to me. Usually, when this happens I suspect it is just out of boredom. So my main goal is to try and use that boredom to my advantage, and create an entertaining conversation that she would want to interact in. Here's how I responded to this one:
Her: Hey what's up
Me: Chilling at the street party in _city_
How about you?
I'm aiming to creat interest and spark up a conversation. My plan is to just push it through like a normal public interaction, and then I will cut it short, but see if she wants to meet up and go to a musical that is at my alma mater tomorrow night. If she doesn't, then oh well, I'm still going though.
Thoughts on this? How do you normally deal with something like this?
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X