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    Thumbs down having a difficult time in London as a foreigner?

    I'm just wondering if anybody else had this as well. As a foreigner (I'm from Brazil) I'm having a hard time in London. It seems that it is hard to DHV in here as a foreigner. That's the impression I'm having. That the foreigners are seeing by the girls as low value. It seems that the british guys have the preference in here.

    I have a very good english and in other countries I didn't have a problem to meet girls what so ever. But here, it is very difficult and I'm trying really hard without any results.

    I meeting other guys as well who are having the same problem. Can anyone who has been as a foreigner here give me some input how did you find London to game?

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    Default Re: having a difficult time in London as a foreigner?

    I think it's all in your mind. London is an amazing, diverse city with people there from every country on earth.

    When I visit Europe I use the directional opener.

    Use your foreign accent to your advantage. Girls will be curious where you are from based on your accent. Maybe mention that you are from the #1 Football (soccer) country in the world. Again, this may start a friendly debate as to which that country is. Make her guess that you are from Brazil.

    Escalate from the directional opener.

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    Default Re: having a difficult time in London as a foreigner?

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    I think it's all in your mind. London is an amazing, diverse city with people there from every country on earth.

    When I visit Europe I use the directional opener.

    Use your foreign accent to your advantage. Girls will be curious where you are from based on your accent. Maybe mention that you are from the #1 Football (soccer) country in the world. Again, this may start a friendly debate as to which that country is. Make her guess that you are from Brazil.

    Escalate from the directional opener.
    Thats the thing. Girls get curious in other countries in europe. Not here. Here there are so many foreigners from so many places that you being a foreigner here, you're just another dude who came here to make a buck. Another one in the crowd. nothing special.

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    Default Re: having a difficult time in London as a foreigner?

    My experience as a Canadian visiting London has been totally the opposite.

    I think maybe you should say that you are visiting because that works for me. Work on your game and you will do well.

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    Default Re: having a difficult time in London as a foreigner?

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    My experience as a Canadian visiting London has been totally the opposite.

    I think maybe you should say that you are visiting because that works for me. Work on your game and you will do well.
    Maybe as a canadian they see you differently. You probably speak english as a first language. I see the english speaking people doing much better in here. Americans, canadians, australians and of course the british. I would like to see someone from another country telling me otherwise.

    I was working with germans here and they are having the same problems. Some of them even decided to go back home because they were feeling miserable in here. If it would be just me here having this problem I would have guessed that maybe I'm the problem but I'm seeing lots of lonely people around in London.


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