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Thread: She Is Just Annoyed Now. What Do I Do?

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    Default She Is Just Annoyed Now. What Do I Do?

    So here's my dilemma. I have this ex (oh shit, I know). We've been broken up for quite awhile. We've both done our own things, seen other people, all of that good stuff. The breakup was mutual because she went to school out of town and we couldn't really handle the distance very well.

    Anyway, she is in town for the Summer, and we kind of started talking a little bit again. One night we were drinking with some friends and things got really flirty and we ended up kissing, but she was just being really hot and cold about everything afterwards, although she did tell someone she wanted to hook up with me. I really just want a fun Summer thing with this girl. She is really fun. So a couple of weeks ago I invite her to hang out, and she has to cancel. One of my friends and I are at the bar hanging out with some girls we had just met, having a good time, and she shows up. She is visibly pissed. Later on she is texting me about how it was rude and disrespectful. I've been playing it cool so far, just being like, well it looks like someone is a little jealous. She denies it.

    Two weeks later, I see her, and she is still pissed. I'm just trying to tease her and play it off, but she is just shitty. I think I made a mistake when we were texting and I said, all it is, is you still have feelings for me and you have to make everything difficult when it doesn't have to be. She informed me she has no feelings for me anymore, and I shouldn't assume I know what she is thinking. Obviously we haven't been in contact for awhile, and she wouldn't be messing with me if there wasn't something there, but at this point she is just shitty towards me, and I think she just thinks I'm a dick right now.

    Any tips for how to handle this? Do I keep doing what I'm doing, or is there a way I should try to keep attraction up, but also stop coming off as a dick to her? I'm okay at this stuff, but obviously not even intermediate yet. Like I said this girl is just a lot of fun and I want to have some Summer fun with her, but she is being real difficult. Any thoughts?

    Thanks for the help!

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    Default Re: She Is Just Annoyed Now. What Do I Do?

    man, telling her that she has feelings for you will only make her distance herself and try to hide that fact (because no girl wants to get that feeling that comes from having feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same about you) you should not worry too much about this and just keep seeing other girls. slide it under the table like it never happened. if she comes running back to you cool, but otherwise just leave her alone.

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    Default Re: She Is Just Annoyed Now. What Do I Do?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    man, telling her that she has feelings for you will only make her distance herself and try to hide that fact (because no girl wants to get that feeling that comes from having feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same about you) you should not worry too much about this and just keep seeing other girls. slide it under the table like it never happened. if she comes running back to you cool, but otherwise just leave her alone.
    Agreed. Why are You hooking yourself on this girl when you wanted to have a fun summer? That is strapping a lead anchor to yourself by creating a summer relationship. Even worse, what if you can't get it off when fall rolls around?

    I have the same goal as you: have fun this summer. There is a Facebook group for my high school class, and since I was the know-where man and I had a ton of plans, I let the group on them to see who would want to tag along. Hundreds of views, not one input, so I said fark them. I have literally removed everything from my life in order to start from ground zero. So far, every day in the streets has been like a new adventure for me. My house now feels like a prison that I fight to get out of. Outside, there are new people around the corner, and new surprises just lurking for me to find. THAT is what my ideal summer feels like.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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