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    Hellhound196 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Should i move on?

    This girl and I have been talking for a couple of months I was looking for a relationship not just sex and we really got to know eachother to the point that I don't know what to text her most of the time because I've no questions to ask. We went on a date and it went well but we live four hours apart so that's tough. She works a lot works out after that and also does medical training stuff cause she goes to college for nursing and will soon start summer classes. So we can barely communicate because she texts me in the middle if the night cause u guess that's when she has time. I feel like she's interested but really busy; unfortunately I fear she may have lost interest because distance won't always make the heart grow fonder I really need some advice here guys.

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    Default Re: Should i move on?

    If you feel that the ball is rolling downhill, then it probably is. There are ways to reverse the direction of this ball, but it all depends on what you want.

    As for whether I think you should pursue her or not, I think in the outer sense it's not worth it. Here goes why:

    You already seem to sense things are slipping, mainly because you burned the candle too quickly. In addition, there's far too many things that would force the two of you to go out of your normal routine for each other. Jobs, distance, times sending and receiving texts, it's a whole ton to do and given the fact you are not already in a relationship, I don't think the recommended advice for a long distance relationship will work.

    I say in the outer sense because that's looking at the situation from a third-person. Only you know the connection the two of you have, and if you are confident that she would say yes, and you are willing to put in the large amount of effort, then do it.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Should i move on?

    If she actually is losing interest its your fault. I used to run into walls with texting as well, then i realized; If i have nothing to ask or say to her..why the fuck should i text her? to keep her interested? Pretty hard to keep a girl interested when you waste her time with uninteresting texts.

    Let the game come to you, if her aloofness is worrying you--then wouldnt your aloofness worry her?

    Jafari out.


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