There is a hot waitress at a sports bar in my neighborhood. She is always giving me IOI's (smiling and waving at me, coming over and asking me how I am, saying goodnight to me, constantly coming around to make sure my drink is full and I don't need anything etc) One night I overheard her talking with another waitress about her salsa dancing, so I decided to check out classes at the studio she dances at. Even though she is a very experienced dancer and I am new when I asked her to dance she said yes.
After the class was over, given that she had shown me so many IOI's, and that we had some level of comfort and rapport I asked her to join me for a coffee date. She answered "Thank-you, I'm flattered, however I'm not interested going on a date or having a romantic relationship with you". I'm so confused. This girl has given me more IOI's than any other girl I have ever met, and yet she says she's not interested. I don't understand why her behavior indicated one thing, but her words another. I'm thinking maybe I just put her on the sport since I asked right when class was over and we were heading out. It's the only explanation I have. Why else would she ALWAYS be smiling at me, checking on my table and agreeing to dance with me?