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Thread: This girl has me thinking of her now

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    Shadowcomplex is offline PUA in Training
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    Default This girl has me thinking of her now

    There's this girl
    I know that's fairly attractive but I've never really looked at her in a sexual context until now , basically I think she has a bf . But a few weeks ago she was the only one at work that wished me happy birthday , I texted her later that evening and thanked her for wishing me happy birthday and she suggested we should go for a few birthday drinks some time to celebrate , it's been 3 weeks since she texted that and just last Friday she said to me in front of 2 other guys , we still have to go for those birthday drinks , in work I'm definitely considered a more senior figure than her and unlike other girls in the past I don't don't act wussy toward her nor am I in the very friendly Zone , I have teased and made her laugh a lot in a sarcastic but non cruel way . What ye think guys?

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    Default Re: This girl has me thinking of her now

    Just from reading the forum today I can tell you 2 mistakes you did, which I think will help you. First is quite major and the second is a minor.

    Right, the 1st thing.
    Do not get yourself thinking of her, EVER. Make her think of you. You are the prize not her.

    2nd, Don't assume she has a BF if you're not 100% sure. It might seem she might be slightly hitting on you, which could mean she doesn't have a bf, or she's not happy with him. So if I was you I would check the ground first. If she is single or has a bf and is unhappy then I would go for it, otherwise personally wouldn't want to fark up somebody's relationship.

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    Default Re: This girl has me thinking of her now

    that somehow could be a good sign of her to like you in some way, however, you need to be really careful at this situations.

    If you have a thing for her by thinking at her most of the time, first thing you need to do is get to know her. That process would gather your thoughts for a better decision

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    Default Re: This girl has me thinking of her now

    I started a Facebook chat with her this evening , I didn't spend long talking to her , I was also the one that kinda instigating closing the chat but her reply gave me the impression she wanted to keep talking , should I gave kept chatting to her ?

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    Default Re: This girl has me thinking of her now

    If the conversation is starting to heat up, I.E. lots of attraction is being built or starting to get sexual, keep going for a couple more minutes then end the conversation.

    Ending a conversation first always shows that you have higher value and possibly in the woman's mind, better things to do.

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    Default Re: This girl has me thinking of her now

    If you have nothing else to do, you can just go with it and be friendly as she is. If she really has a BF try to have a safe conversation with her to avoid any troubles that might occur.

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    Default Re: This girl has me thinking of her now

    I got confirmation today that she had a boyfriend but she is now single

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    Default Re: This girl has me thinking of her now

    Oh that's good, if you are still interested in her. You just have to take it slowly, make sure that she's completely moved on.


    Good luck with that if you're going to pursue on whichever thing you have for her!

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    Default Re: This girl has me thinking of her now

    Do you think it would be a good or bad idea to go up to her tomorrow and just ask her when she would like to go out for the drinks she promised me

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    Default Re: This girl has me thinking of her now

    No -_- , you need to be in control . Test her to see if she's serious about getting drinks with you , plan something with friends and invite her casually . " Hey you , me and the friends are going out for drinks X day at X place , you should join us there at X time. She probably will say yes if she meant it from the start.


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