Hello new here found this site by searching for advice about this girl i really like and was hoping someone here could help me a bit.
I have the Pandora's Box system and if i go by the types that are in there im sure she is a NDI or a TDI im 100% sure she used to be a TDI but now she seems to be a NDI but its so hard to know for sure.
Was hoping someone more experienced with the system could give me strategy in finding out or if i should even be trying this system.
A little more on the situation me and her dated twice for 3 months the first time and a little over 2 the second time.
The first time we broke up was because she said her ex called her out of no where crying and she liked both of us and she didn't wanna hurt anyone so she would be friends with both of us only.
That went on for a month then she ended up getting with him so we stopped talking for awhile.
Second She told me she was really sorry for hurting me and said she would never do it again at this time I wasn't being so sweet to her anymore and im sure its one of the reasons she wanted me back not 100% on that tho it lasted for awhile then she said her baby's dad was messing with her head and she wasn't mentally ready for a relationship so we broke up and stopped talking really for 3 months.
Which Brings me to most recent a few months ago she hit me up asking how I was doing, I was doing ok been with a few other girls which was pretty cool but non that I could fall for and I still had feeling for her so i wasn't doing great.
I knew for some reason if I told her i was doing great we would start talking again and I wanted that so I did and she start talking to me more and more and invited me to a skype video call I thought things where going really well at this point, note she is very closed off sexually and takes that kind of stuff very seriously but in this skype call she was very flirty with me again and ended up sending me pics of her body i know she wouldn't do that for just anyone so I felt i was doing really good but I think I jumped the gun in asking her out and she said she needed more time.
Then she found out her ex had a girl on the side the whole time and she got really sad and didn't really want to talk for awhile so we didn't talk for like a month again, once we started talking again she said she was happy and everything and everything seem like it was going really good til she told me it was another guy she started talking to while we wasn't talking for that month but she said she didn't want a relationship right now anyways but one day she said he started ignoring her and she got really sad and cried even and things got kinda bad between us for a few days because i lost my cool about that because she was mad about that when she has someone like me who is so nice to her she said i was riding her too much because i was really trying to get in contacted with her and that made her not want to talk to anyone so I just left her alone thinking i messed up again by getting too needy.
A few days later she texted me late with pics of her and some wild hair pics she knows I like wild hair lol, I kind knew if I felt like I should act like the nude pics where nothing like I always do and so I did but she brought it up again complaining that her breast are too small when she knows they are not lol I might have messed up here but not sure, I thought if i showed her a pic of another girls breast I got that really are small it would help me out because I felt she responded to stuff like that since she has before so I did but she said Ummmmm and we stopped talking that night after that we its been 3 days since we talked a little bit but not as much as i would like not sure where to go from here so I been trying pandora's box again and found this site and hoping for help I know there are other girls and that I might be best off going with others but I just really want to be with her regardless maybe i have to learn the hard way but thats just want i want right now.
I Really Apologize for the long post I hope someone can read it and help me out just a little and sorry for that being my first post im just really trying to get back with this girl and not mess it up this time by being needy which i won't.