So the girl I know has been giving strong ioi's and is totally into me,she said she wanted me. But when I asked her out,she said shes not ready for a relationship. She's got out a relationship a year ago and told me she doesn't know how to be happy and how to love.she's been going through Alot of bad sh1t in her life, and most recently her cousin got in a car crash.I'm kinda lost at this point and don't know what to do. We somehow lost our spark after that talk.she still shows interest time to time but it isn't half of what it use be. What should I do now? How can I revive that spark?