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    Default Do you reward her straight away ?

    When a girl asks you to give her a hug, a kiss, smack her butt, etc...
    Do you do it straight away ? I feel that giving it straight away would end up in her using you or something along that, so I wanted to ask what I should do when a girl asks you stuff like this ? To show that she is not using me for her pleasure and that she is really into me ?

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    Default Re: Do you reward her straight away ?

    This is a broad question and it depends on the context of the situation you are in with a girl.

    If it's a random girl who I am looking to just kiss anyway, who cares. If it's a random girl who wants to hug, I'd throw in something like, "and what do I get out of it?"

    If its a girl I am dating and she wants a kiss, well thats because she wants a kiss from me and wants to feel wanted. So it isn't necessarily a bad thing...

    However, I do know girls who take advantage of being a "girl" and knowing "guys", they will do it because it's any sort of attention from a girl, even if it doesn't mean anything to her. But I am typically good at spotting a girl like that so I sort of neg her and make her work for it (response above).

    If that is the case, don't feed into it, but rather, play along with it. Make her do something for you first. Psychologically, her mind will think that to get something from you, she has to give you something first.

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    Default Re: Do you reward her straight away ?

    So what could I make her do before I reward her? What can I make her give me first ? And how do I say it ?
    If I say, "what do i get out of it" She might say Nothing or "a hug from me", I dont think this is rewarding YOU before you reward her ?

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    Default Re: Do you reward her straight away ?

    I've gotten that reply before... so all I say back is, "I don't think it works that way. You can't get something than give it back, you have to do something else."

    Joke with her about it, say be creative with it. Tell her to kiss you (if it's a hug)... Or this is a good way to get her number too... be like, "well, possibly... but first, put your number in so I can add you as 'girl who asked for hugs'".

    Or go with something like, "how about you give me a hug, but don't make it like any old boring friend hug. I want passion, that is if you know how to do that"

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    Default Re: Do you reward her straight away ?

    I agree with one of the other posts, it does depend on the situation. However, this is a judgement call. Would you continue to give a child candy everytime they asked for it? Hopefully not, so you set pace. Sometimes when she asks you do , and other times you do not.


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