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Thread: 2nd date not the best , now what?

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    Default 2nd date not the best , now what?

    Hey guys,

    As some of you know I've been on POF and playing the numbers game. Met this chick on there about month and half ago (HB7, busy "princess" like girl) I closed the number deal fast and texted/called the next day, we hit it off. She couldn't meet me for about 3 weeks because she was moving/busy with school so I kept in touch with her and played text games, teased, etc everything went well.

    First date- we went for dinner/drinks and talked/hanged out there for probably a couple hours- she was sick/sleepy and i was hungover but it went fine and after that we both took the train and i got off after 1 stop. She texted prolly 5min after saying she had fun we should do this again and i took it from there.

    Now second date is where it went a little iffy, in my opinion. Her place, shes cooking and we have drinks eat and watch some netflix. I'm super touchy with her and playing around/teasing but after 2 movies + messing around with our phones together I didn't do too much contact (epic fail). I call cab and she walks me out while the cab comes we gnite kiss and i peace.


    Now I waited a day or 2 and texted her she was responsive for first two texts but didn't respond after that really, i get it she's busy but i feel like i'm losing this. one of my friends pointed out maybe shes GLAD i didnt try to fuck her on the 2nd date because every guy does but i def could have tried much harder.

    Should I set up a third date this week/next week or wait for her? (2nd date was sat)
    What can I do to win her back a bit more, get her more responsive/stoked? I usually have much more contact after 2 dates but it feels iffy now and im a bit confused where to take it from here.

    Thanks guys

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    Default Re: 2nd date not the best , now what?

    you kind of didn't take action on her signals.the second date could have gotten you laid.why not try inviting her to your place or for a walk no far from your place.then rest is simple just run kino and escalate.if transitioning to the is your bedroom is the problem then you should try giving her a tour,which ends in your room.Once you have been runing kino she would be turned on and would be open to be there.escalate.

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    Default Re: 2nd date not the best , now what?

    Yea, I was thinking of doing that. How soon should I set this up? Last time I saw her was on sat but we texted briefly yesterday, she didn't reply to the 2nd/third text. I'm thinking wait a few days and aim for sat

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    Default Re: 2nd date not the best , now what?

    wtf man? "2 movies + messing around with our phones". When did you guys find time to mess with phones and watch 2 movies? The movie should be there to remove the awkwardness and create conversation not to watch.

    I was watching a movie with my girl I was dating and then in the middle of the flick i start playing with her breast and everything. I took control. You have nothing to lose at that point.

    If I was you, how I would recover is that I would go out with her to a bar or somewhere and have some fun to ease tension and then bring her back to my place after a goodnight of dancing. As you take her to your room you go right in.
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    Default Re: 2nd date not the best , now what?

    Go for the meet but if she doesn't respond your next text don't ask her out yet.
    see her as sport and while you move to others.In a nutshell if thats the case you may freeze out and come back


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