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    Default URGENT!Need help with shy girl who says she likes me but when I ask her out

    So, I've met this girl 3 months back. We're going on the same colleague so I already thought of asking her out. And then one day we just started talking...After that conversation she contacted me via facebook, I added her as a friend ( she didn't have enough courage to do that), we started chatting for like hours and hours, we shared some music, and even our own handwritings ( she told me that sharing her intimate love story was very hard for her and that she usually doesn't show her stories to anyone- again she's very shy) and after a few weeks of chatting I asked her out. She said yes and we went to my favourite caffe bar. There, she told me what's troubling her... She recently broke up with a BF ( they've been together for 4 years), she said he was very manipulative but she loved him so much... She also told me her father was a drunk. All in all she was very honest and she wanted to get all of this off her chest on our first date... I listened to her, shared my story, it went well, very emotional first date, I made one mistake-forgot to hug her at the end...

    We hanged out after classes, we were still chatting for hours and hours, and she invited me on a barbecue... At the end of the barbecue, somewhere around midnight she got a call from her dad... she cried and cried... I was there beside her but her main support was her best friend... We went home walking, two of us walking hand by hand, talking about love and life and how we have special connection...then she opened again and told me she had bulimia. I mean she's so shy, so cute, so vulnerable, so honest and careful, always trying not to push me away but make me understand her and her feelings. She said: "I'll understand if you think I'm weird and if you don't want to hang out with me..." I finally looked her in the eyes, told her she's not like any other girls and that I really like to hang out with her, and then fucking bus arrived, she had to run and I didn't kiss her!!! Godamnit!

    After that, I continued escalating through facebook messages bla bla, asked her out-she said she was not in town but looking forward to seeing me soon, asked her out-she said she's going to the hospital today with her mom, asked her to meet after class-she fell asleep and missed the class... I stopped contacting her after that and after two day she sends me : "I'm hoping you're enjoying your week so far..?" So, we started chatting again, two steps back one step forward... Finally we've met, went on some philosophical lecture, her best friend and my best friend were with us... It was great, we had a laugh, few drinks, I did some kino, teased her, but I couldn't kiss her while her friend was there (my bad...). At the end, they were just getting into the bus when she yelled: "You still didn't bring me your music!" ( she asked me for a CD with my favourite songs few weeks back). While walking home we were text messaging to each other, I teased her for her "last second act" bla bla bla

    Next time I asked her out it was in the middle of exams, she said she'll try to be there and I realised that she has big problems on the colleague so I said: "I will not be selfish, we can meet when you'll be done with your exams". She was very happy to hear that and promised to repay me...

    Two weeks of studying went by, still chatting for hours... And now I sent her a text message, asking her to meet up if she has free time...and for 24h...no reply...

    Ok, she likes me, obviously, she's trying not to scare me of... She sends me messages like: "You have beautiful eyes. You're such a wonderful person.....". She's very shy, has eating problems, family problems, exBF sent her a note that he will kill himself...We're great together...WHEN WE MEET UP and that's the problem... I mean I've never been more honest to anyone in my life and I never REALLY LISTENED to anyone about their problems and their life philosophy... Should I proceed whit this push-pull thing? Should I tell her to decide if she REALLY wants to meet with me or not? Because, some might say I should give up.... but I don't want to...she really is my lady and I don't know if this is good or bad...

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    Default Re: URGENT!Need help with shy girl who says she likes me but when I ask her

    honestly your sh1t is too long to read so ill just improvise. and the best way to ask out a shy girl is to hang out with her without labelling it as a date.

    Just make it sound like a hangout as you would with a friend, then build comfort, get her to laugh and whatnot. After that things will be much easier.

    Clearly feelings are mutual so that already cancels out the 'dating' aspect...just enjoy eachothers company

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    Default Re: URGENT!Need help with shy girl who says she likes me but when I ask her

    so i actually skimmed through it and the best advice i can give is...
    Give her a taste of her own medicine...dont reply to her sometimes and STOP making so obvious you are the chaser.

    Shy girls lack confidence and by chasing her youre giving her a bunch of attention which translates into confidence so maybe shes content with fucking with you.

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    Default Re: URGENT!Need help with shy girl who says she likes me but when I ask her

    Yesss, I should probably stop starting conversations and stop asking her out... I mean, that one time I did it she was the one who started conversation, and it was very obvious that she wants to start texting again (" I'm hoping you're enjoying your week so far...")...

    Well, I won't get her if I'm not willing to take a risk of losing her...

    Thanks mate, I just needed to write this down and get some reply... Farking cliché this is I know what to do.

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    Default Re: URGENT!Need help with shy girl who says she likes me but when I ask her

    yessir! never hesitate to ask or just write down your thoughts. and believe me its not a risk


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