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    DwightKim is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I'm really shy to approach strangers, not just girls, but all kinds. Help

    I'll just cut to the chase. Im really shy at approaching any person that I do not know, not just women. Not that I'm afraid of failing or to get reject, I really don't feel the fear of rejection, I think. Im just afraid to be the one to open a conversation. I feel really awkward to open a convo. For example, Im sometimes even too shy to ask a sales lady/men of asking what's the price of this certain product. Another one is, when I was a kid when I ask my mom to buy me tokens for the arcade, she'd give me money so that I would buy on my own, but I'm too scared to talk with the cashier.
    But actually, not to sound really cocky, Im a pretty self confident person. Many people find me attractive, I have a great physique and personality. But what I want is to meet women outside, and approach those cute girls I really want to talk to when I got to the mall.
    Please, any advice?

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    Mikalichov is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I'm really shy to approach strangers, not just girls, but all kinds. He

    Had the same kind of thing. Way I fixed is was, unsurprisingly, practice.

    For me, it went through Meetup. Found a good and interesting group, active and social, and went every week. So once or twice a week, you are in a group where you know a couple people, but half or more is new, and you have to talk to them. After a while, you just stop caring and say hi to everyone (and you meet lots of girls on the way too).

    Now I just have normal women-related AA
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.


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