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    Default Questions about re-engaging...

    So I was wondering what the best way to handle re-engaging is?

    I find if a re-engage is going well, I will normally follow it up with a flurry of back and fourths before breaking off and resuming normal patterns. Is this the right way or is there a better way to do it? Just wondering as I'm analysing every part of my game at the minute.

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    Default Re: Questions about re-engaging...

    That's what I do. You're re-engaging for a reason, so you want her to get talking first, before anything. So once you have a few quick exchanges that's your patterns should slowly start returning to normal. That's what I do, but if there is a way that's better please do tell. I doubt it though.

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    Default Re: Questions about re-engaging...

    Once they are engaged and you feel like you can go for the meet go for it.if not end the conversation on a high note.but then talk to them later.try not to wait too long though.next day should do.

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    Default Re: Questions about re-engaging...

    I wouldn't try to go for a meet-up so soon in a re-engaging. Your goal should be to get the ball rolling again, not to aim for a date of sorts. After two or three conversations, then you can go for the date. Don't rush things so fast, or the ball will start going downhill again.
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