Theres this girl I've gone out with 3 times now, we've never used the "Date" word but each time has felt like a date. We love each others company and she's all over me in person, she initiates most kino and she gives every sign in the book and then some. she's defied her curfew each time with me, and turned down her friends at the club once for me. Our last time out was a double date sorta deal, and my friend saw what I saw, so she seems totally into me in person.
One problem, she doesn't answer her phone, she called me back once and I missed it so she left a flirty voice mail which ended with a "please call me back"(she asked if I still had it, so I'm sure she knows I'm feeling her). No answer or call back sense, OK maybe she doesn't like talking on the phone(neither do I).
With texting she ALWAYS responds, but its usually between 10 min to an hour response time. she's always down to go out with me and if she can't make it, she reschedules and we go out then for sure.
here's the deal, I was gonna ask her out the last night we were together, but was so tired I felt Id jumble my words(not ideal), so I figured I called her, guess I really wasn't thinking. Of course she didn't answer Tuesday, texted her to call me but got nothing. The next day I ask her if she's free Friday night, she says it depends on if she finishes her project for school or not(summer A classes are ending, she's a perfectionist in school so seems legit), but she asked what I had in mind. I think I shoulda just asked her to catch a movie and that's it.. but I said "Well, if its gonna be like that.. lol I wanted to see if you wanted to catch a movie, get some food<--not necessarily in that order" and now no response. One day later nothing.
My question is, what's up?.. Also should I just send her a text saying like "actually scrub this weekend, I'm gonna be going to Orlando"(I was if she doesn't respond anyway). Or should I say nothing, wait a week, and try again, maybe word it better next time.. What do you think? Thanks!