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    Default Invited her to movies, no response?

    Theres this girl I've gone out with 3 times now, we've never used the "Date" word but each time has felt like a date. We love each others company and she's all over me in person, she initiates most kino and she gives every sign in the book and then some. she's defied her curfew each time with me, and turned down her friends at the club once for me. Our last time out was a double date sorta deal, and my friend saw what I saw, so she seems totally into me in person.

    One problem, she doesn't answer her phone, she called me back once and I missed it so she left a flirty voice mail which ended with a "please call me back"(she asked if I still had it, so I'm sure she knows I'm feeling her). No answer or call back sense, OK maybe she doesn't like talking on the phone(neither do I).

    With texting she ALWAYS responds, but its usually between 10 min to an hour response time. she's always down to go out with me and if she can't make it, she reschedules and we go out then for sure.

    here's the deal, I was gonna ask her out the last night we were together, but was so tired I felt Id jumble my words(not ideal), so I figured I called her, guess I really wasn't thinking. Of course she didn't answer Tuesday, texted her to call me but got nothing. The next day I ask her if she's free Friday night, she says it depends on if she finishes her project for school or not(summer A classes are ending, she's a perfectionist in school so seems legit), but she asked what I had in mind. I think I shoulda just asked her to catch a movie and that's it.. but I said "Well, if its gonna be like that.. lol I wanted to see if you wanted to catch a movie, get some food<--not necessarily in that order" and now no response. One day later nothing.

    My question is, what's up?.. Also should I just send her a text saying like "actually scrub this weekend, I'm gonna be going to Orlando"(I was if she doesn't respond anyway). Or should I say nothing, wait a week, and try again, maybe word it better next time.. What do you think? Thanks!

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    Default Re: Invited her to movies, no response?

    Well, if its gonna be like that..

    NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!

    that is a really moody, needy thing to text! It makes you look hurt that she won't go out with you al the time. don't do it again.

    You don't need to wait a week, wait a few days if you get nothing then text her again with an unrelated re-engage text. Something light and fun. Do NOT mention how she's been out of contact.

    keep it fun and light, this should be fine. Plus movies are a terrible idea for dates! just so you know!

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    Default Re: Invited her to movies, no response?

    Loud and clear, thats why I asked first lol. Ill wait a bit.

    The reason for the movies is because weve had 3 nights to talk, so we kinda know who each other is a little, but the movies would give us an opportunity to cuddle, maybe steal a kiss if the timing is right.

    Thanks for the answer by the way!

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    Default Re: Invited her to movies, no response?

    In most cinemas there are arm bars that get in the way. Do something more interactive, like bowling or golf and then just move for the kiss there. The movies is one of the most unnatural places to go for a kiss. There's stuff in the way, people ARE watching you and there's uncomfortable silence due to a film.

    STAY AWAY FROM MOVIES, from personal experience they are terrible dates. you can't build any attraction there

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    Default Re: Invited her to movies, no response?

    Yes yes yes, do stay far away from movie dates. Unless you're doing something before hand or after. Even then you have much better alternatives than a movie. Although I shouldn't be talking because I have a movie date later tonight. That's only cause I really want to see Fast 6 though.

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    Default Re: Invited her to movies, no response?

    Well you see weve gone mini-golfing and bowling, but I didnt see her as a real romantic interest yet, was kinda just feeling her out.. weve also gone out for drinks. I was thinking we get dinner and watch a movie, the stereotypical date. I have a habit of making things more fun than they should be(one of my better qualities), so the movies seems fitting. I dont wanna do the whole ice skating thing yet, wouldnt wanna show off my hockey skating skills just yet =p.

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    Default Re: Invited her to movies, no response?

    So you've been on two dates and not kissed yet? I know we all move at our own pace but by date two I will have always kissed a girl.

    I'd really advise against the movies really just not a good dating format.

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    Default Re: Invited her to movies, no response?

    Well again I didnt view them as dates, idk how she viewed them, but I want this one to be a date for sure lol. Regarding the movies I literally have nothing better in mind at the moment, but Ill put some thought into it. Thanks for the advice by the way!

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    Default Re: Invited her to movies, no response?

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    So you've been on two dates and not kissed yet? I know we all move at our own pace but by date two I will have always kissed a girl.

    I'd really advise against the movies really just not a good dating format.
    depends on the girl and how much she's into him.

    talked over FB with a barbie girl hb6-7 for a while ages ago. Invited her out for the first time to go cinema. We went to watch Bruno, made her laugh lots before the film started. Then in the cinema she was pissing herself so was I cuz of the film, and I was adding bits to it to double the effect. After the film we kissed and spend a few more hours together, I told her that I am going on holiday the next day for a few weeks and she said she will wait for me, and she did. Got back, first day we met, she had a present for me, went back mine had some great sex and she was my gf for a few months since then.
    English is my second language

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    Default Re: Invited her to movies, no response?

    Quote Originally Posted by cesar3003 View Post
    depends on the girl and how much she's into him.

    talked over FB with a barbie girl hb6-7 for a while ages ago. Invited her out for the first time to go cinema. We went to watch Bruno, made her laugh lots before the film started. Then in the cinema she was pissing herself so was I cuz of the film, and I was adding bits to it to double the effect. After the film we kissed and spend a few more hours together, I told her that I am going on holiday the next day for a few weeks and she said she will wait for me, and she did. Got back, first day we met, she had a present for me, went back mine had some great sex and she was my gf for a few months since then.
    So then a movie doesnt sound so bad.. lol


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