So this is kind of a long story but ill try to keep it short.
Me and my ex havve been broken up for 9 months now. It has been a roller coaster. We haven't hooked up since we broke up. We both now live in different cities but I do visit the city she lives in an almost weekly basis because a majority of my friends live there. I have tried cutting her off multiple times by ignoring her but she keeps trying to contact me and thus the roller ocaster of us seeing each other and not. The longest I have gone ignoring her was 2 months.
Now I try to hold myself from seeing her, and when I do, I try to keep it so that its just us (but thats not always the case).
She has just won tickets to a concert and has asked me to go to the city she lives in and go to the concert with her (its going to be me, her and two of her friends - one male and one female) She even said I could stay at her place (with her roomate) when I told her i'd have to figure out the overnight situation first.
I don't want to be friends because I don't see her as a friend. Yet she keeps pushing it (calling me and saying "Hey friend" etc). And i've made that clear to her multiple times but it just makes things awkward whenevver I do and brings up negative talks so I stopped doing that.
She does have a history of keeping her exs arouond as friends, but not in the way she does me.
I have also made it clear that as soon as we start dating other people, whatever it is we have now will be over - her response is that she isn't going to be dating anyone for the next 5 years, which I know is BS.
We also have many mutual friends (who have sort of taken sides)
I know she still likes me and cares about me alot as I do her.
Should I go to the concert?
Is there any way for me to twist this in my favor?
Any help/feed back is greatly appreciated!