Ok so I have been on this fairly strict fat loss regimen lately except when it comes to Drinking. Going out to drink is rare for me and more trying to work on day game but that is off topic.
Now because my finely chiseled features are starting to materialize, I have noticed that drunk girls actually started to approach me from time to time which is great because I am still stuggling with approach anxiety.
Any way such a circumstance happened on friday night while I was doing a half drunken stumble down the strip with my friends.
She came right to me, ignored my friends we hit it off a bit, and went to a bar to get more drinks, started to build some very light kino just some hand holding here and there and eye contact IOIs were present. We were also into the same shit: both into music prod ect. Deep conversations were starting to happen.
So out of nowhere up comes this dude behind her who kind of grabs her an pulls her aside. They come back a minute later and she introduces him as her Boyfriend: an amiable enough person I guess. Her boyfriend leaves after telling her not to get to drunk because they are doing something tomorrow and she seemed kind of pissed about that.
Anyway so I was planning on taking her home that night but that whole situation kind of threw me off track. After he left, our rapport got even better but I couldn`t take the steps I needed to take close. (I am still an inexperienced closer)
So I basically got her number verified it worked and saved my name in her phone with a tag that would make her remember who I am.
Now I am faced with 2 problems:
1. I have to figure out how to deal with her boyfriend
2. I have to text her which I HATE doing.
I have found that if I don`t close the deal on the spot my chances go down dramatically on the callbacks. This is also why I gave up on POF.
So I need some pre-emptive help this time to see if I can avoid screwing it up, if I have not already done so.
She will not be in the emotional state and likely will have forgotten all about her feelings for me. I need to come up with a good text that will engage her emotions and remind her of our connection what should I do?
I was thinking of saying something like "hey do you think if I asked nicely Mike Tyson would sell me his tiger?"
Also what are your thoughts on her BF, I do not want to turn into a shoulder to cry on about how she hates her BF. How can I deal with her BF?
My time window is closing since this happened friday night and it is already sunday. Help please.