Re: Number closed in 2 minutes. Need help.
Don't ask her to go out again so soon. You should first aim to build up some attraction and rapport. Wait a couple of days, and then open her with something that references back to the night at the bar. Preferably, it should be a fun moment or am inside joke that the two of you thoroughly enjoyed.
This won't end in a flake if you do everything correctly. Just keep your head screwed on straight and you should be fine. As for the waitress, feel free to game her too. That is, if that is your style
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