Just need an opinion on how to best recover from this one.
Background: I recently started hanging out with a girl I was good friends with in highschool again after years of not seeing her. It was always just friends then, but now it was clearly flirty so I stepped it up a notch. Have been seeing her once a week or so just bars, hanging out etc and it's been a great time. A few nights ago I went back to her place and spent the night. Made out and messed around sexually all night, but did not fully bang this time (she stated we can do that "real soon". It was great she kind of blew my mind after knowing her as a friend for all these years. I do have feelings for this girl a little but I don't really know that it would work out dating, so it is what it is for now, but I'd defiantly like to keep hanging out (as friends with benefits, maybe more who knows). The next day she texted me how much fun she had and hopefully we can get together again soon.
I let it rest for a day or two since she was busy over the wknd. Yesterday I tried to make a plan with her over text about catching dinner and taking a motorcycle ride etc instead of a bar this time. She was kind of slow to respond and when she did it was very blah and uninterested sounding. Total 180 from last week. Gave me a flaky "I'm not sure what my night will be like tomorrow" BS.
This is when I let my emotions get the best of me and I made a mistake.. I sent her a text basically snapping saying "never mind then. I'm not dumb that's clearly a blow off.. Didn't really expect that from you, especially since the last couple times have been so fun"
She then responded back "what?? I'm not blowing you off I just may have to work tomorrow night and can't make any comittments"
I responded "sorry. I shouldn't have said that. I'm just in kind of a crappy mood tonight for some reason"
Her: "it's ok, texts can be easy to misinterpret sometimes. I've just been kind of tired and wanting to spend some time alone after this long weekend (drinking)"
I went on to say a couple more texts which looking back, were kind of wussy about "how she makes me happy, we should get together soon, etc.
I'm regretting the episode last night. Feels like the conversation was left in an awkward spot. I'm tempted to text her today "sorry about snapping like that last night, was in a weird mood", to try to set the tone straight.
Good idea, bad idea, don't text her at all for awhile? Advice guys. Thanks